How to Break Up With a Guy Gently?

Hello Everybody


how are you





i need you r help





i want to break up with my boy friend but want to do it gently








if you can help








thank [ in advanced]How to Break Up With a Guy Gently?
Just say that you really like him but only as a friend, and that he deserves someone who likes him more and loves him more then a friend =)How to Break Up With a Guy Gently?
Be nice, polite, offer sympathy and support (even helping him out with the art of pick-up if he is a shy guy), and tell him you will do whatever he feels necessary to ease the transition (which might include you two never seeing each other again)...





BUT..





Be firm and unambiguous. Tell him you are breaking up with him. Tell him it's over and that you don't want to be in a relationship with him anymore. Tell him it's non-negotiable and there is no possibility of you two getting together again.





Do NOT second guess yourself or be swayed or pretend to be swayed by his pleas to get back together. Also, do not try to sugar coat it, you know ';oh it's not you, it's me'; or ';you deserve better'; or ';let's just be friends';... it only comes out as being condescending.





And do it face to face, of course.
First,take him to the side and dont say it in front of a lot of people that makes it seem worst.


Second,Say Im sorry but i dont want to go with you any more because(state your own reason) and i hope that we can be friends but if you dont want to i understand
There is no easy way for either one of you but be honest how you are feeling tell him your sorry that it's come to this but you cant be in a relationship with him when he feelings one way and you feel another it's just not fair on either of you.
Hey.. their is no good way. I can tell you this.


1 to 5 months most of the time not so bad.


6- 1 year your in a little trouble


2+ years your kinda of screwed when it comes to gente





Are you the one he lost his virginity to? IF so, your definitely fu*ked.
How about something like this,I am looking for a person that(and what ever the situations is)etc.I don't feel you are going to to fill that void.
tell im that you think things have got as far as they should and that you would still love to be friends with him if that is still possible, oh and do it face to face never over phone


good luck
I really dont think things are going to work out... I rather be friends with benefits or just friends.





Thats my way of saying it.