How do you break up witha guy that doesn't want to let you go?

we've been going out for a year and he loves me so much but still i know i cant trust him because he have lied many times and cheated on me once. i do love him and i forgive him but i'm tired of all the things he have been doing. i've given him many chances but he still failed me. i dont want to expect anything from him anymore. now i want a breakup but he is really holding on.he doesnt want to let me go. he's obssesed i may say...he said he will wait till we were like before.he said he'll change but i've heard those words many times before. i dont want to hurt him but how can i tell him that i just dont wanna get hurt anymore.now were still seeing each other pretending nothing happened but im still cold with him. i gave him one week as a chance to prove himself but i dont know what to decide. pls help me.How do you break up witha guy that doesn't want to let you go?
I'm a firm believer in cutting ties cold turkey for a successful breakup. Worst case, move away and start over without him.How do you break up witha guy that doesn't want to let you go?
It's certainly not going to be easy. It's almost like being addicted to something. You can't just quit cold-turkey. Start making plans with your friends more. This way you can slowly distance yourself from him and you won't have (as much) time to argue about your feelings. Spending time with your friends will also help you forget about how sad he is. It's going to be hard but you can't worry about his feelings right now. Take care of your heart!!





Good luck!!
hi,,, its common thing... gv chance 1 time becoz if he love u lot than he come back, or he change but if he doing time pass than he ingnoor but in ur case is tr with u.. talk him freely,, sit together n solve. noddy help u only u help Ur self u decide wt u want?
tell him u hate his smell
First, write him a letter explaining all you have said in your question. Of course be as nice and kind as you can, but you must be firm. Close the letter by saying you will meet him for dinner or some other public type place for a final personal meeting as you have too much respect for him to let it end by letter. Let him know that you don't mean to hurt him, but he must realize that you have been hurting for some time now...you are physically and mentally drained and you must move on. Ask him that if he has ever truly loved you to please respect your feelings and let you go on with your life. This is not easy for you but you have made the decision that you believe is right for you. Remember...you must be firm. If you meet and he began to get nasty or unruly, tell him you will leave immediately. By the way let someone know(who you can depend on) your plans and have them drop you off and be a phone call away to come and pick you up. You cannot be friends right away...maybe after enough time has passed and you are positive it can be only that as far as he is concerned.


The important thing here is that it must be done and you cannot put it off.





Good luck and keep safe!
he's a control freak and i've been seeing alot of this lately!! if he cheated on you and you never cheated on him then just leave him!! you say you don't want to hurt him but look at all the pain he's putting you through. he will become abusive if you stay with him. leave now, is the best advice and stop worrying about his feelings cause he wasn't worried about yours when he cheated on you!!!
Been there %26amp; you are in a dangerous situation-REPEAT dangerous. Break off-no games-no contact-no phone calls ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT! Stick very close to family/friends-VERY CLOSE! When you say, ';I will be here/there certain time';, stick to it %26amp; have someone watching out for you;try not to be alone away from work, etc.
say it over!!! and never call or revice call from him if he still doing it then call the police! he shall go jail!!
Tell him sorry, but you have no intentions of staying with a liar and a cheater. If he cannot accept that then you will be forced to add ';possessiveness with stalker tendancies'; to your list of things that pertain to him. Pretending nothing happened is the worse thing you could do.
dear,try to avoid him,try to spend your time in other things,not receive his call,and it is more better to meet him and tell all things that you don't feel good with him,and make the end of your love by mutual understanding
He doesn't love you the way you want to be loved. What kind of love does a person have who cheats. Its quite obviously he doesn't know what love is and just can't stand to lose.
well youll have to do it in a nice way
Poor guy. Get him to join the men's groups on Yahoo so as he has some support.





I spose honey, you just have to do it slowly. Be nice to him for there's nothing surer than that someone will do it to you. If you break him in peices then that's what you'll get.
Two Words: Restraining Order. Good luck.