Ladies: how would you most prefer a guy to break up with you?

I am dating this girl and I am attracted to her, but there isn't much there more than a physical attraction. She is a great girl, but we just don't fit together. I know it's going to hurt either way, but it's not fair to her to keep it going if I'm just not feeling it. Any advise?Ladies: how would you most prefer a guy to break up with you?
What you wrote right there is so perfect, it's gentle, yet not so gentle that it's fake. It's the honest truth and it is such a beautiful way to put it :)


Honestly, if I were to get broken up with (Especially for the reasons you are breaking up with someone for) I'd want it to be put that way. It's perfect but not too perfect :)Ladies: how would you most prefer a guy to break up with you?
I would want the guy to gently tell me that they think Im pretty but that you dont see the relationship moving further beyond physical attractions and prolonging the enevitable wouldnt be fair to either of you, so you would prefer to begin seeing other people. If you feel like a friendship is merrited, you can go for that, but otherwise, Id just say your honest goodbye. Id rather hear the kind truth than be strung along or, give the cold shoulder.
Say you're really a great person and all.You're beautiful and sweet...but the thing is i don't think we fit together.As in,our personality.I'm sure there's someone else better than me.What do you think about this?Do you sort of want a break up ?








Just keep complimenting her,tell her she's great so she won't feel so sad like she's unworthy of you or what.Then thereafter you MUST tell her what is wrong and do not leave her thinking if there's a problem with her.
Yeah, do it in person. Just say ';Hey, I really like you, and you're an amazing person, but I just don't think that this is going to work anymore';.





Most girls hate when guys do it over texting or Facebook. It just makes them think less of you. Person is always harder, but you've got to do it that way. Good luck!
Here's what you should NOT do!!!


Text


Email


Pager


IM


Message over phone


Phone Call


You need to be gentle and do it IN PERSON!!! Also, you could give her a romantic letter saying how much you are attracted to her but it just didn't work out. Girls absolutely love getting letters from there bfs... Just make sure you are as gentle and caring as can be.
talk to her face to face


it's not your fault man


if u continue leading on her,she will feel hurt one day


go for someone u really love


u would be friend if u break up with her right now;


but if u do it after she deeply love u ,it would be impossible to be a friend again.
dont be too hard on her.


be like, 'hey (insert name), i need to talk to you, i dont think we're gonna work out, i like you and your a great girl and everything, but i dont think we click. im sorry, i think we'd be better off as friends.'





BTW say this face to face so you can see her reaction/emotions.


doing it by text/phone/online or gettin a mate to do it is cowardly and lame


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honestly i would just rather that the guy be honest and tell me the truth. coz otherwise she is gonna feel used and played. and since you already know that your not feeling it then your just leading her on and that is what hurts a girl the most
tell her that face to face. honesty is the best policy. be nice, offer her a friendship, and if she does accept a friendship, idont go flaunting furture relationships in her face
i prefer guys being honest with me =]


good luck
NOT BY TEXT


NOT BY SAYING ';YOU'RE DUMPED';


NOT BY GETTING TO ASK SOMEONE ELSE TO DO IT


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TO BE VERY HONEST AND KIND
be honest and man do it fast b4 it gets harder n she starts falling for u and plz watever u do, do it face to face and dont DONT let her find it out from someone else
Explain to her just that!!





I understand you dont want to hurt her but everyone has to get hurt before they find the right one for them...it helps them figure out who they want in a partner.
Dont do it in text or note form, just talk to her face to face. Be nice about it but tell her the truth
uhm....the answer may be '; sorry, I haven't ready for this relationship. I must ...learn...take care of mother'; blah blah blah
tell her in person cause she'll have respect 4 u 4 doing that n tell her the truth why you dont want 2 b with her anymore....she deserves 2 know the truth....
Tell her exactly what you just said then.


HONESTY!
just tell her what you just told us. honesty.
Just tell her! The longer u wait the more itz gonna hurt her...
tell her exactly what you told us.


and say you wish her the best.