How do you break-up and stay broke-up with a guy that is totally clingy.?

I have dated this guy for over 3 years. I have broken up with him several times but he always manages to get back into my life. I don't want to be mean to him, but I also do not want him as my boyfriend. Ideas and prayers are appreciated.How do you break-up and stay broke-up with a guy that is totally clingy.?
First and foremost, when you say '; he always manages to get back into my life'; do you have unresolved feelings or he know the right things to say? I would think that you need to figure out what he does/says that makes him get back into your life. Once you can anticipate what he will do, you can change the way you feel/react to that. When you have prepared yourself to deal with whatever he may do to that compels you to date him again, the feelings may not be there and you can distance yourself emotionally and mentally from him. If he is in part of your social circle, may change the circle for awhile, go take some classes or make some time for new friends.





No matter what you do, you are going to have to be a bit mean. Remember that if you are not wanting to be with him, but are not letting go of him, you are not doing him any favors. By staying together you are kind of closing doors to meeting the people you both should really be with. Good luck!How do you break-up and stay broke-up with a guy that is totally clingy.?
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good luck sweety!!
i've had the same problem. except not 3 years! i loved this boy but he was getting sooo annoying. after we broke up he'd get sooo sad and depressed and i'd just come back because i felt so bad. what i did was find someone else. after a-while he will hopefully get it that your happier with someone else and that he will be to when he moves on.
im going through the same problem....i havent succeeded yet but i have told him the flat out truth that i just dont want to be in the relationship anymore and i dont love him that way..and make it clear you will not be calling him or hanging out anymore so he want be lead on in anyway...good luck