How do i break up with a guy? please please help!?

Ive never done this but we technically arent dating. it was like a relationship without one if you know what i mean. anyways i started seeing another guy and im pretty sure we are going to date so i need to break up with this other guy but i feel bad but i want to be on good terms...how do i do this? Do i say theres someone else? or you had your chance? please HELP!How do i break up with a guy? please please help!?
Nooo. If you want to stay friends, you need to say your not interest anymore.


Say its been fun, but the spark is gone.


I wouldnt say anything about this new guy unless he is okay with being friends.


See how he reacts first then go from there.


And you could always tell him its not you, its me.


Hahha. That one usually works.How do i break up with a guy? please please help!?
Well, there is no need for you to be in a relationship that you dont feel comfortable in. If you dont want to be with this guy anymore, then you dont have to be.


If you dont want to end in bad terms, all you have to do, is tell the guy that right now you have alot of stuff in your mind, and that u dont feel like you are ready for a commitment, or relationship, just tell him that you need sometime for yourself, because you are not prepared to be with him at this time. The best thing to tell him is that you need time, never tell him that you are leaving him for another guy, he doesnt have to find out now, that would make things worst, just make it look like you are not ready, and need time.
Treat him as you would want to be treated.





Would you like if someone made a big deal about the fact they would rather have another girl? If you call attention to all his good points in a way it's only a cover up for not saying what he lacks. A person needs to keep their dignity in tack.





So make it short and painless.





';Dear John, I have enjoyed the time we had together getting to know each other and wish to remain friends. (I would stay away from talking about another man and any such comparisons)





I think saying ';friends'; in any sentence will get your point across to most guys. If he doesn't take the hint, is rude or persistant, that is the time when you can say you have found someone else, (still refraining from details)
If he's going to be mad there is nothing you can do. It helps to do it in private and then meet up with a group of other people where you can all be friendly and show you can still be friends and that it counts for something. However, if he takes it really badly, he'll need time to be by himself to deal with his emotions.
Depends really, if you say there is someone else, you are ending things. If you say you had your chance, you are saying its his fault. If you want to want to remain friends (which you really can't immediately after a break up) go with you had your chance, he may resent you if you say there is someone else.
I would say a combination of both.





';Look, you've had your chance, I want to be in a real relationship, and this is not one. There's another guy and I'm hoping he'll treat me better';





something along those lines.
just tell him that you have decided another path for yourself other than what the relationship with him is, and that you care for him as a friend and would like to continue to be friends without any animosity
Just tell him this relationship is not working out, tell him if it was, you wouldn't be looking around to see what other guys there are.
just tell this guy yu just wanna be friends.
just tell him you met someone else you want to get to know a bit more/.