Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Any advice on how to break up with a guy?

i am currently in a relationship i don't want to be in. at first i thought i liked the guy but now the things he does that i used to find funny are just down-right annoying. he ses he loves me and we have only been going out for two months. i know i have to break up with him cuz by dragging it out im only hurting him but i have no idea what i should say or when is a good time. help?!?!?!Any advice on how to break up with a guy?
You are making a good decision to break up with him. All I can say is let him down easily and don't lead him to think think that you two may get back together if you don't think it will happen. That has happened to me he still hasn't gotten over me yet because I let him think that I might get back together with him. GOOD LUCK!!!!!! ;)Any advice on how to break up with a guy?
Wow, my girlfriend is in the exact same predicament. She used to find some of the things I do funny but now she finds the ';down-right annoying'; and I know she wants to end it with me based on those traits.





Instead of ending it, why don't you try to talk to him about it? Maybe those things he does are not truly who he is and he's just trying to impress you.
Tell him the truth! Do not lie or make excuses. Tell him the honest truth and try and be nice about it. If he seams as though he is not taking it well, highlight his good qualities and tell him how you know plenty of girls who would give a lot to have a guy like him (as I'm sure you do). let him ask questions and try and answer them as honest as possible without making him feel too bad, no matter what. If he starts getting rude with you tell him that this is just how you feel and that your decision is final. If he starts to guilt trip you, tell him that you are sorry, but you need to make decisions for yourself, and that you are at least being honest with him.
the best thing to do is to be honest with him. tell him that you just dont see long term potential in him. break up with him like you would rip a bandaide off. quick! no point in delaying it. you're unhappy, he's sure to pick up on that.
you have to do it quick and fast...like taking of a band-aid


sure its gonna hurt the guy...but hey...he's a guy right, he should be alright...if not, then he needs to grow a pair...





remember, quick and fast!
use a hammer works all the time so my mate ted bundy states

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