Why Would a Guy Break Up With You Then Call You a Few Days Later?

To make a long story short i was in a relationship for 8 months with a guy. The beginning was great but as we moved further into the relationship he became, possesive, controlling, demeaning, and verbally abusive. Finally he broke up with me and I was very hurt and still am but am moving on.





So after the break up he called me a few days later and I asked him what was the purpose of the call and he said..';to see what i was doing.'; Then he called once again and asked me if i was seeing other men etc and told me how he took this new girl out and how much he spent on her.





He accused me of being needy, pyschotic, controlling and every mean thing in the book prior to the break up. If i was all of these horrible things, why is he still calling. Why Would a Guy Break Up With You Then Call You a Few Days Later?
hes playing a game . try best to ignore itWhy Would a Guy Break Up With You Then Call You a Few Days Later?
Girl he's so confused! I think he feels bad about the way he treated you and yet he still loves you. Maybe he feels like this chance with another woman is like his fresh start you know? He wants to be with you, but the memory of everything he did in the past may still haunt him and make him want to do it all over again. Maybe he's just tryna change, but his heart wont let him let go of you.
he was expecting you to come crawling back.


and when you didnt, he got pissed because you werent doing what he wanted you to do. its all just a part of him being controlling.





stay the hell away form that guy, its never going to change.
Just count your blessings that he told you that he's found someone else....you deserve someone who will love and cherish you instead of treat you like a punching bag... let it go and move on!!


I hope that helps...
yeah my ex did that too he just said he wanted to make sure i was ok and idk its been like 5 months and he still asks if i am dating so maybe its just a guy thing
Because he is an *** and he needs to leave you alone no man especially grown man should not be deign this
He called you cuz he wanted some poontang not that hard.
if u dont want to talk to him then just ignore him, but if ur just confused just ask him wats up