Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do I break up with this guy?

He is really sweet but he makes me feel a little pressured to do things with him. I don't know what to say to him that won't hurt him too bad. my family doesn't like him so maybe that could be something? help please?How do I break up with this guy?
Tell him in a sturdy, yet nice tone how you don't think it's going to work out. If he asks why, just tell him you have too much going on in your life. And then run away quickly so he won't have time to reel you back in. :)





Sturdy voice, remember!How do I break up with this guy?
There's no best way to break up, because they usually ';break'; someone in the relationship. If you aren't happy then it's best to be straight-forward with him and let him know your concerns. Try not to use the ';it's not you, it's me'; line or the ';we can still be friends'; line. Those usually make things worse. Just explain to him why things aren't working in your relationship, and that you feel you owe it to yourself and to him to not put you both in a position where there would be any unhappiness. In this life we are only afforded certain things: one of them is not the certainty of time. ';Don't settle for anything less than extraordinary';!
No means no just let him know how you're feeling if you like him a lot and he's a nice guy and likes you a lot you should be able to tell him your boundaries and whats OK and whats not OK. If you don't really like him that much I'd just break up with him and maybe stay friends, if he's that much of a nice guy he'd be OK with that. You're family probably knows best.
i think that you should just do it to his face. It may be hard i know, but afterwords when you feel bad, it will make you feel better that you did it nicely and that hes not calling you asking you why, because you told him to his face that you didnt think it was working and that you didnt want to upset your family well there is already problems in your family.
yeah just say :


i think we need to take a break for a little while. I dont know why but i just feel a little presured when we go out together and my family is having a hard time ajusting to you. Maybe we can still be good friends but im so sorry.





Tip: Defiantly no text break up and not telling friends to deliver message.
Just tell him straight up. The worst thing a girl ever did to me was when she didn't break up with me because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. So instead she just acted like a huge ***** for no reason to get me to break up with her first. I loved her a lot and it was terrible so just tell him if you truly don't want to hurt him too badly
ask your self first if you really love him cause u cant turn back time.if your feeling is not enough to hold on the ralationship then let him go.being hurt is normal,he must not pressured you in doing things u dont like. explain to him, give him some condition, if u are gonna continue asking me to do it,its better we must part our ways.talk to him in a nice way. good luck
you break up with this guy by telling him that its not working out you know let him know. He puts pressure on you to do things with him , and you don't like it your starting to think it ain't going to work sorry .and there is noway to make it work.
tell him that your family wants you to be out of any relationship so that you can focus on your own life properly and get your mom to play along with you, i'm sure she'd be fine with it especially if she doesn't like that guy.
If he is pressuring you he is using you. Give him the bad news and let him suffer. Men are like trains, there will be another one come along in 15 minutes.
Tell him the cold truth. Tell him u feel like hes moving too fast and thats not somethng u like. DOnt make any lame excuses tho or that will hurt him.
is that the only reason why u wanna break up with him??? tell him firmly that u dont wanna do anything and if he ignores that then dump him rite then and there
Just tell him you want to break up with him. He obviously just wants you to do stuff. :)
tell him the truth face to face but take it easy dont want him depressed or so angry to kill you
just jump in.....
You should never feel pressured if so he's not the one.At times family knows best.
Talk to him and let him know the reasons.
well the easiest way it to be honest with him


just say what u really feel and maybe he will understand


and u two can be friends after that so it'll make him less upset
Tell you've been seeing someone else......Cruel to be kind!
just dump him.
just tell him to get lost that he a loser
leave a stickie note on his door - tell him you had enough
I think maybe you should just talk to him about it...have u guys discussed sex? cuz once u get it off ur chest its quite liberating! nd if u still wanna breakup just do it the mean way: text Message lol

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