Whats the best way to break up with a guy? (guys help please)?

I've been going out with this guy for just over two months. and before now we were best friends and before that we went out for a while sometime last year until our friend was flirting with him and we broke up.. and i'm finally over him and i've loved him for ages but now its just gone and i dont know how to break up with him... and he asked me on a date on saturday but i dont want to say yes and then just dump him.


please help me.


Whats the best way to break up with a guy? (guys help please)?
uh bye looserWhats the best way to break up with a guy? (guys help please)?
Your friend was flirting with him? Sounds like an excuse to me but never the less a REASON.


Go with it.


It will be easier to just to make up an excuse and let him know you are the jealous type and are better off alone at this point in your life.


Sometimes it is easier to make up a little white lie then tell the truth in order to get out of certain situations i have found in my too many years of being on this rotten earth.





Later when you move into a new relationship and if he asks any questions, ( if he is still around), you can explain to him you worked through your jealousy issues. tee hee






Dont feel powerless,





You are in the drivers seat.. If you dont wanna go.... just say no. Find a good movie to watch or go out with other friends...


Your reasons certainly justify your decision... Remember, men are powerless with out female validation. You have the power of female persuasion..


Excersize your power wisely, slowly and you will find yourself with someone that won't be tempted by others. You will also discover the most powerful motivating force in human nature for a guy is a girl worth waiting for.





We (guys) can move mountains and go to no lengths to prove ourselves for a gal that respects herself and makes us respect her or wait for the forbidden fruit.





Set your expectations high and take no prisoners... Follow your instincts and feel no guilt... Just say no and let it go... You have a built in ability to think with your head... Us guys... well... we think with our ***** the first 35 years of our lifes.....





Dont look back..





Best of Luck..






just be honest if you guys were friends before just go back to that or if you dont want too then just say so separate yourself from the drama and free you mind


';there's never a right time to say good bye, but you know, you gotta go, your separate way-e-ays, i know it's hard but you gotta do this, and its killin you,cuz there's never a right time, a right time to say good bye';
I assuming you said yes... and that would be the main source of your problem. Here is why: YOU SAID YES WHEN YOU DIDNT LIKE HIM!





ok on to the question part of your question.





Answer: say no. oops too late for that.





Answer 2: (only needed if you messed up on answer one) Just be honest, you told strangers about your lame teenage drama problems, so tell your lame crush/boyfriend/ex/whatever/blah. Also, don't ask such worthless questions.
i dated my bestguyfriend for a year.


when we broke up.. i didnt tell any of my friends.. i just went straight to him and talked to him about how we need to try new things.. we hugged and then went to lunch and sat with the rest of our friends.. we are still friends (:





try to do something nice like that.. just unawkward and undramatic
i had the same problem with my ex girlfriend





you just need to sit down with him, and break it to him gently.





just explain that that is what happened.... say ur busy on saturday, unless uve already accepted





if he truly loves you he will understand,, these things happen








good luck
will i was in the same situation except i was with this guy 4 9 to 10 months and i finally told him and he got sad so i said nevermine then i had to dump him over myspace it was hard 4 me but it depends on wat type of guy he is?
sit him down, look himi directly in the eys, and slap the hell outta him, hit him in the crotch so hard he'll need to go scuba diving to find his jewels, and take his money. he'll get the picture
Tell him that to still want to be friends, Tell him you want to talk and meet him someplace. Tell him that it didn't work out but that he is a nice guy.STILL STAY FRIENDS!
tell him before the date defenitly he might try to step it up a notch














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meet up with him or call (if you are scared on his reaction)and tell him how you truly feel. guys hate lies from girls. Really.
Tell the truth, always tell the truth. but be nice. you do not want to burn down bridges
well u arent really going out with him from wat i can tell


j say u dont really want to go on the date right now


and u dont hv to break up with him if ur not going out
its different for different guys, i would jsut want u to be straight forward about it.
dump him on the date or don't show up
Maybe if you want to say no he my not date with you.
NEVER:


Ask a friend to do it for you! It is so confusing to the guy and he will be bugging you to see if it is true!





YOU SHOULD:


Call him and tell him or with tell him with a note.... Maybe you should tell him up front so that it is easier and if you still want to be his friend tell him you just want to be friends. Don't be scared! It will work out! :-)