I need some real answers!!How do you break up with a guy... but still want to be friends?
Depending on his level of attachment that he's developed over you, it may not be easy for him to just be your friend. People that go through relationships, and then just want friendship afterwords need to determine whether or not they can even handle it, because it tends to bring out raw emotions that generally the individual experiencing it finds it hard to coupe with. If you're ready to move on, I would suggest to just move on. It's better to break all ties than to leave the one person hanging there constantly begging for your attention.
On the other hand, if the person really could careless whether or not you remained friends or not, by all means go for it.How do you break up with a guy... but still want to be friends?
Well I had the same situation with my ex.
We had been dating for about months and I was really into the relationship emotionally.
She wasn't. If anything she kept trying to push me away.
So I told her how I felt and told her that if she didn't feel the same way maybe we could just be friends. We talked about it and she said no . . . she wanted to work at the relationship. We did but it didn't work out. After a few months we just kinda drifted apart. We didn't stay friends.
Tell your guy how you feel and that you want to slow things down, or stop them. If he's that into you he will respect what you want and back off. If not well then you have to dump him and hope for the best.
Just remember to a guy a female friend is fine as long as she stays that way. If you keep slipping from friend to girlfriend you will only frustrate him and make him not want to be friends.
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