How do I break up with a guy who thinks we're going out?

I met this guy from the internet, and he's really very nice, but way to intense for me. I'm just not interested in him in the same way. The thing is he just fixed my laptop for me for free, and I'm dreading seeing him cause he want's to introduce me to more of his family... Is it better to just end it before it gets even worse? and i'm going to come out looking like such a user after the whole thing.How do I break up with a guy who thinks we're going out?
You probably gave him mixed signals, so this is why he is thinking it is something more than what it is. Sometime us women when we don't want to hurt a guys feelings, we may try to be nice to him. Especially when we feel they like us, we don't know the best way to let them down easy, so we just go along with it until he finally gets it or realizes he's being ';taken for a ride';.





We don't intentionally do this, but somewhere down the line, you must tell him that you are not that into him, but let him down easy. He could be a little crazy, or just really passionate. Cause it sounds like to me you are leading him on to think more than what it is.How do I break up with a guy who thinks we're going out?
ooh yes, i know what you mean. It's crazy how they automatically assume things. I would totally break it off now before it gets any worse. Sure your going to feel bad, but really you don't want him think you guys are gonna get married next week lol. But honestly i would just let him know your not really interested in him.
no problem staying friends with him, but you have to make sure he knows that you aren't interested. Tell him as soon as possible or you WILL just end up looking like a user.





Its always better to stop bad things while they're still getting started. don't wait until you're neck deep and drowning in sh*t before you say something.
If he thinks you're dating and you don't, just say it the way you told us. The problem men usually have with women is that you don't say what's really on your minds; then when we misunderstand or fail to get why you're acting schizo, you treat us as if we missed a 40' billboard!
Tell him you are not ready to meet his family yet, that you want to take things slow..maybe you have been hurt before?!? Anyhow, I would let it go another week or two and then just tell him that you think you are better off as friends. This way he doesn't get hurt, doesn't think you used him and you don't have to meet his family.
be really weird and creepy to him so he is the one to end it