He keeps bringing up his ex girlfriend and the horrible break up that they had and he says Im scared to get into a realtionship constantly, it bugs me so bad. He also gets mad almost everytime I make a joke with him. He's just an emotional kinda guy and I have to get away from it. Im just really scared to hurt his feelings because the boy is fragileHow do I break up with an emotional guy who might even be depressed?
Tell him Your Moving to another country and Actually MOVE!How do I break up with an emotional guy who might even be depressed?
Don't be worried, because no matter what you do he's going to be hurt. But that's not your fault or your responsibility. If he keeps constantly bringing up his ex and their horrible break up, he's obviously not ready to be in a new relationship and needs to take time to heal his wounds over that before he is ready.
Besides, don't you want a boyfriend you can laugh with? Stop wasting your time with someone who's emotions are controlling your relationship and go find someone who's worth being with.
Best of luck.
omg thats such a hard situation
well you know no matter how u break up with him, he's going to be hurt. the kindist way is too just tell him exactly how you feel, tell him that you DO care about him, if u didn't, you wouldn'y have even asked this question on here. You need to tell him that you love and care for him and it's best for him to be on his own. Say your still be there for him, ask him if he wants to still remain friends but if thats too hard then you will have to cut him off completely
im sorry if i haven't helped at all but i just hope everything works out for you, good luck!!x
It sounds like it is starting to be a bit of a disrespect for him to be constantly saying ANYTHING about his ex. It's his ex; the only time he should say ANYTHING about her, is if YOU ask who she was or how they broke up, and after that, never again. Tell him he either has to take a chance with you even if he is scared, or to stop moping around, wasting your time. Don't joke with him anymore- he's not the joking type- neither is my bf lol. Give this a lil more time.
It's not your responsibility to be his therapist. Maybe you should break up, give it a little while so he can heal (maybe 2 weeks) and then ask him if he's ready to be friends. If he is, that's great and you can see if the friendship is working out. If not, this guy needs to go find someone to talk to so he can get all of his emotions out. It's not fair for you to have to deal with him ragging on you all the time.
Hope this helps!
hmm maybe try to make him not like you first? if he talks about his ex gf then he's not fully over her yet. don't make it look like you're breaking up with him because of how he is cuz then he might get this idea that no girls likes him.. .
well if u dont want to be in a relationship with him, then you dont have to be. but you need to let him down gentily or maybe suggest having a break for a while.
In order to get out of this you may have to resort to setting him up with another girl but that may not be best as if this works he will only bother her about it.
My second plan would be to get him counseling.
Just tell him u think he needs more time b4 he gets into another relationship and u wanna give him time 2 heal. And if u neva wanna get back 2gether wit him ever then u should avoid him after that
he's going to get hurt either way....
no breaking up!!!
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