How do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?

My bf and I have been goin' out for exactly a week. I'm not feelin' it with him. What excuse can I tell him to make him not mad at me. Help!How do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?
there is no way to break up with a guy without hurting his feelingsHow do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?
Just for a week and you're not ';feelin' it';? Maybe before you jump into the next relationship, you should mature a little bit. Relationships are not all candy and roses and being showered with affection or passion for each other. You could try being friends with someone first. Or even try to create the passion/interest yourself.





At any rate, you're going to hurt his feelings, especially since he's going to feel like you didn't give him much of a chance (you didn't.) So maybe just tell him the truth. ';I'm sorry, but I'm just not ready for a relationship right now. I wasn't fair to you in agreeing to go out with you, and I'm sorry that we didn't get much of a chance to be a couple, but I'm not ready right now, and this won't work out.';





Then maybe spend some time thinking about how you approach relationships.
Sorry but that's stupid. If you lie to him or give him an excuse, he will be mad or you could hurt him even worse. The best thing to do is to simply say that you are no longer interested and it is over. He may feel hurt or rejected at first, but it's a lot better than being lied to by a girl who is trying to be nice and not hurt feelings.
Him being hurt or not is not your problem.


You only have to be okay with your own actions.


His reaction is his responsibility.





Even if you were a real B****, he is still responsible for his own reaction.





If he chooses to take it personally and do the blame and pain game. . . His, not yours.
First don't do it in front of everyone because this will embarrass him. Tell him you don't feel this is working out. Don't say it like you don't care say it like you really don't want to do this. If he shouts at you just tell him your sorry but you can't continue. Hope I helped ! ;]
TELL HIM TELL HIM TELL HIM!!!


Don't play the silent game or just avoid him. Its much better to hit him with a powerful punch in the gut then to inject poison into him and kill him slowly.


I hope my metaphor helps you see why you should do what maybe the harder thing for you to do.
You can tell him that it's not what you expected and that you figure you would tell him now before his feelings are more invested in you. Chances are, he might feel the same way.
the best thing to do is tell the truth cause if u dont you will have to keep making up lies


or he will soon figure out..


like say: i thought i really liked you but ive noticed i think we would be better friends.
Either wayy it goes your gunna hurt his feelings


there is nothn you can do about that.
I think your still going to hurt his feelings anyways


I believe anyone who breaks up with someone , that person is still going to feel bad , maybe not long but it's still going to hurt.
Just be truthful. It's only been a week so it should be as hurtful to him. No matter what, even if we say we aren't, we're still going to feel hurt.
Just tell him plain and simply, that he is not right for you, just do not be harsh with him
You can't.





All part of growing up.
tell him straight what you really feel


it will still hurt in either way


the more u will lie the more it will hurt him


don't waste anymore of his time


good luck
punch him in the stomach and say it's over. No, wait. He'll want u more.


Just hook him up with a girl. One nail removes another (Spanish proverb).
HURT HIM... PHYSICALLY. AND THEN TAKE HIS MONIES.
if he's understanding then tell him how you feel but if he's not understanding then i dont know what to do soz
be honest or give it time
JUST BE LIKE I HATE YOU...GET OVER IT.


and then walk away with dignity