there is no way!
but u could try the ';its not u its me';hahahaHow do you break up with a guy without breaking his heart?
I went through the exact same thing.I was with a guy for 2 yrs and I wanted to leave for a while,but was too scared that he would cry or kill himself.My advice,best way to break it off is to sit him down and tell him in a nice way of what seems to be going on.Don't do it where everyone is around,that isn't good and could lead to embarrassing drama.Tell him that you think that things between you two aren't going as well as can be hoped and maybe you need to take a break from each other for a while or maybe we can stay friends and tell him you are always there if he needs you for support or help getting through this.
Best of luck
It's going to break his heart. Period.
Honesty, though, is your best bet. Tell him you think you are better off as friends and that you aren't feeling a spark between the two of you. You like him as a friend and nothing more.
Don't let him cry his way back in. And don't say it's all your fault. It's no one person's fault in this case. Just tell him the truth.
You have to talk to him... Its the best way.
Talk to him, tell him the reasons why you wanna break up with him. If he's nice, he'll understand.
Say ';Im really sorry. But I have something I need to tell you, we should break up'; then tell him reasons. Then ';We're still friends, right?'; Try to treat him as good as you can. Getting over someone is a hard thing to do.
Hope I helped
You just be honest and tell him that you two aren't a good match, and are better friends than boyfriend/girlfriend. You have no control over how he chooses to feel, but don't feed him a line of BS to keep it from hurting him...just don't be ugly about it either.
Keep it real...and be compassionate. If it's not working, it's not working. You shouldn't waste his time or yours by staying together if you know the spark isn't there.
Oh well.
He is bound to encounter other heartbreaks in his life; you are just giving him a minor one all things considered. He will survive, pain and all. It's better to be kindly honest with him than to carry on a relationship that you are not into.
I find that the best thing to say is the honest thing, tactfully. ';I don't feel like I have much to offer in a relationship right now, I would hate to lose you as a friend though'.
I think the issue here is your guilt.
From what you have said, he will be upset any way you do it.
Be prepared for him to play games after you have broken up. Sending upset texts and odd phone calls. He is also likely to get intensely jealous if you start dating other guys.
I'm not suggesting you be a bi$%h about it, but try not to feel too guilty. You have a reason for wanting to break up that is perfectly valid. He will get over it. Dont let him guilt trip you.
The best thing to do is be honest, because if he finds out somehow that you lied, it'll hurt even more.
Just try and sugar coat what you're saying a bit. Like instead of saying you don't like him, say something like you don't feel you have compatible personalities, or that your goals are different. Try to make it your fault, not his.
say exactly what you just wrote. just say listen i don't have the same feelings as you have for me, and i don't want to lead you on. i think we will be much better off as good friends. i don't want to hurt you, your great guy but i think everything will be better this way.
your gonna hurt him no matter what, and you probably might feel said too for a bit.. but thats life.
Talk to him about your feelings. Ask him if he feels the same way. If you are *very sure* you two can't make changes to meet one-another halfway, then gently tell him that you don't see it working out as BF/GF, but offer to still remain friends. Be advised, however, that some guys are clingy, and it may take some effort to push him away gently.
Good luck.
well thats tough and ive been in that sictuation... but if u could say this';hey Blank(his name) Im not sure if you and i feel the same about each other but i realy dont think this is working out and i want you to promise me right now that no matter what you'll still be my very good friend!';
i would suggest you to talk to him
face to face say that
he makes you happy as a friend
and if you guys were to break up
it would ruin the friend relationship
so just be honest tell him
that you dont want to hurt him by
pretending to be in love with him
Sorry, you're going to hurt him.
The best thing you can do is do it fast, not be sorry, and not give him any hope for a future relationship. He will have alot of pain, but this way it won't last as long.
Just say it face to face. Don't say it through text or anything, that very rude! Just tell him how you feel. And hopefully he'll understand. There is no possible way to say it in a nice way. Hope I helped:)
GOOD LUCK!
get fat and he will break up with you for sure, this way you can eat what you want and you will achieve your goal of getting rid of him.
That's the best way ever.
there is not really a way you could brake up with him with out hurting him.
just tell him pretty much what you just posted that's the best you can do.
It's really hard to not break their hearts. Just do it and try to stay friends with him. Or you could try to get him to dump you, but don't cheat!
gee thats tough! :/
well you cant keep the lie going!
all you can do is
be honest,and tell him you're sorry
but its better for you to be honest
It would hurt, but not as much as if you prolong it.
Ending a relationship just isn't fun.
Hook him up with someone else or make him break up with you
Just tell him and move on.
well just be honest and tell him u just wanna be friends or something like that.
It's over! (slam door in face)
There's no easy way to do it, and no matter what you do, he is going to be hurt. The best thing to do is to be honest and move on. I'm a sensitive guy like that, and I took it pretty hard when my ex girlfriend left me. Don't be surprised if he gets persistant and starts trying stunts like guilting you by doing odd and idiotic things. The best way to tell him it's over is to say that you just don't feel up to being in a relationship, and that it isn't his fault. Tell him that he's a wonderful guy, and that you're glad that you had an oppurtunity to be with him in that way, but that you're just not the right person for him, and that he'll make some lucky girl very happy in the future. It'll sting quite a bit, but it's one of the ways my ex girlfriend left me. (We had broken up and gotten back together a few times) It hurt a lot, but it was also nice for her to say those things about me. Also state that you don't regret your relationship, but you just can't go on with it and the two of you would be better off as friends. It'll hurt his feelings, and tears will fall, but you have to be stern and stubborn. Let him know that you mean what you say and that you're not changing your mind. Hope this info helps.
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