Break it off now. Tell him you respect the friendship that you had before, but you just don't have the right bf/gf feelings.
And you hope to retain the friendship. don't be surprised if
he breaks off all contact for a while.What is a good way to have a guy break up with me while still wanting to keep the friendship?
U have to know if the guy is willing to keep u as his friend too? Not everyone can befriend their ex. Its jus to painful for some. Especially when he's a cancerian...it maybe impossible to be friends again..
Not an easy task. It's very hard for a guy to ';just be friends'; with a girl. Women don't understand that. If you want him to break up with you and still be friends, you'd have to become unattractive to him or undesirable in some way. Maybe go extremely high maintenance or start blabbing on and on about some family member he doesn't care about. Another thing would be to find out his politics or beliefs and take the opposite view firmly and vocally.
This is all underhanded and may backfire severely so the best thing to do is just tell him the truth and maybe he's one of those few guys who can be a friend. His attraction can't just disappear by this, though. Good luck.
well...... a lot of it depends on your ages. But I would say that if he really likes you either way he is going to get hurt. There's no way around it whether you do something messed up to make him break up with you or you break up with him it will hurt him. Just explain to him how you feel that you thought you were better as friends. You still want to hang out and all that crap just not romantically. Now don't get me wrong he'll probably be pissed for a few days but he'll get over it eventually. It's something you will have to deal with. But the sooner you cut it off the better and the less hurt he will have. But don't try to make him break up with you b/c more than likely that will not work and if it does you guys probably will lose the friendship as well. Just be open and honest and he will respect it later on when he works through his pain. But let him know you care a lot about him and even call him and stuff to let him know this.
umm you need to break it off with him. Your the one who's not feeling the relationship. Just be honest. The longer you let this go on the harder it will be to tell him how you really feel. Who know he might be thinking the same thing.
My advice just tell him the truth that u really don't get what u really want ..and if that still not work try to make another boy friend and see what he react ..and still no difference ..just IGNORE HIM ...don't worry about what he feels what he reacts ..coz your life is yours you should listen to your heart and just express your self faithfully without worring...you r u...remember ..if you tell him truth,trust me you never gonna break his heart ...c-ya
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