Monday, August 9, 2010

How to break up with a guy in the nicest way possible?

I started dating this guy and i thought i liked him but after a week or so i realized hes more of a friend and i want to stay friends so how should i break it off?How to break up with a guy in the nicest way possible?
not that hard,only been a week.in school,they break up at least 2 times a month.she likes another guy most likely.How to break up with a guy in the nicest way possible?
Be frank and immediately inform him your point of view, by this way you will win his respect and try to explain the reasons behind your decision and sure he will understand you.





Please give valid and realistic reasons in order to be understood %26amp; don't give promises for being a good friend in future, because this may give him hope that things may change in future and you may think about him, especially if he likes you.





Good Luck ^_~
Lol there is no way he's gonna take this lightly. He's gonna either pretend its no big deal or just be very upset with you for being so damn indecisive at least if it were me I would be. But its better than leading him on to think you still like him thats one thing guys reallllly hate cuz it wastes our time. Just say when you guys are alone'; You know Bobby, I dont think this is working out'; and we '; Should just be friends'; thats how its usually done , no need to invent your own crazy way of doing it but I doubt he will actually stay friends with you after that. Just being brutally honest.
';I gotta talk to you. We have been in this relationship for a week and... I don't know how to say this but... I think we are better as friends. Is not you, it's me. We are not going anywhere with this thing. Can we be just friends? :)';





I don't know what do you think about this answer, but I would say something like that.
Tell him what you just told us. You confused your emotions and now realize that he is more of a friend. You really do not want to ruin that so it is better off that you let it go. He will appreciate that you are brave enough to be honest and care enough to be up front about it. Don't do anything stupid with a text or phone, do it in person.
Do it face to face and just say that you really like him, but you aren't ready to be in a relationship or date right now so you think it's best to stay friends- if he likes you enough, he'll be fine with it :)
Tell him that you're glad that you tried to be in a relationship with him but you would much rather the two of you remain friends. Say that you love being his friend and hope that he wants the same thing.
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You can't break up with someone in a nice way. Breaking up is breaking up, nothing good or nice comes out of that no matter how you do it.
Well it'll be really hard whatever you say but break it to him gently and tell him you'd like him better as a friend. Also make sure no one else is there incase you humiliate him. Good Luck !
Tell him exactly how you feel, no break up will be easy and nice but if it doesn't feel right, its what has got to be done.


Good luck bubaa, x
Best thing to do is tell him the truth, there is nothing better than that. And say to him you still want to be Friends
be honest with him and tell him its not working out


say that hes a nice guy and stuff but yeahhh
Say i think we would better as friends and then give him a hug :)

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