I started dating this guy two days ago, and he REALLY like me. He already introduced me to all his friends too. And I am his first girlfriend. But after we started dating, I began to realize that I only like him as a friend. And he always wants to hug, and cuddle and stuff. I want to break up with him, but how can I do this without seeming like a slut, or a *****? I really don't want to hurt him!!How can I break up with guy without hurting him?
DO it and DO it NOW! The truth is he will be hurt NO WAY AROUND IT! So your delema is ultimately how do I break up with so I don't have to feel bad, deal with the confrontation etc....Sooner then later is always best.
It is not your fault you only like him as a friend it just is and you are responsible for breaking it off in a kind and honest matter but you are NOT responsible for how HE handles it. His actions are his own and you really can do nothing about it.
Tell him you just don't feel a spark. you think he is a great person but your only interest is as friends.
We have all had someone like us that we didn't like back with no ryme or reason and it is just the way the ball bounces.How can I break up with guy without hurting him?
O.k I'm going through a breakup right now to.. except we have been together for 7 months, and I realized that I really just like him as a friend... I love having him as my friend! (i'm a little slow, haha)...
But I'm just going to call him, and say that... tell him that I really liked the way things were before we we're dating, and let him know I will always love him as a friend... and in two days, I'm going to follow up and call him and ask if he wants to go to lunch, as a casual friendship, because I said.. I still want to be friends.
So maybe you could try the same?
If he really likes you, the fact is there is no way of not hurting him. If you wanna break up with him, put him down as softly as you can.
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just tell him u dont wanna get in to anythin serious and u wanna take things slow. if hes smart he gets the hint and dont go out with him as much so he doesnt think u actually wanna do stuff with him
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