How do I actually break up with this guy?

I have been seeing this guy for about two and a half months now. Before we started dating we were friends but did not talk all the time. He knew that i was planning on moving to california but still insisted on dating me. I had no problem with it because it wasnt that serious. however, time went on and he started talking about weddings and houses....like with me! I got freaked out and I just dont really say anything. And now the time is getting closer to move and I want to be ';single'; for the small time im still home. I told him the other night that i dont think i will be able to handle a long distance relationship and blah blah blah. its so hard to have that responsibility, especially if im going to have to take the time to settle in and find a job, plus ill be going to school. he doesnt respond to anything i say and then ten minutes later he acts like everything is ok. why dont guys read between the lines!?!?! HELP ME!!How do I actually break up with this guy?
its your life and it sounds like hes thinking of HIS happiness, not what you want for your life. or he is getting mixed signals. if you are not planning on committing to this person, tell him w/no uncertinty. im glad we were friends, i have things to do before i go, im excited about my move and new life and i wish the best of everything for you. if he says YOU are the best thing for him, tell him you know what you want for your life (or at least the next chapter of it, whatever applies). you have to be direct with him. tell him that his suggestions of marriage and houses were HIS idea and that you never felt that way. it was only a couple months after all. dont let him push or guilt you into anything. men like that can be controlling in many ways and it may get even worse. i dont know this guy so i dont know if hes an ok guy or what, but go for what makes you happy and hopefully he will realize you mean what you say and let it go. wish him well. if it was nothing he said or did that made you not want to marry this guy (he might want reasons) you can say your focus from the start was on something else and it never changed. good luck to you both. (i dont mean to say TELL him this or that, im making suggestions. i put it that way for simplicitys sake)How do I actually break up with this guy?
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U need to tell him how u feel,tell him the truth I'm sure he will appreciate you more for telling him ,Just say i need to have a serious talk with you and that you are not ready for a relationship that you some space.
follow your heart. dont ask over yahoo answers. seriously
I FELL UR PAIN AND YOU NEED 2 BASICALLY JUST BE STRAIGHT FORWARD WITH HIM....YOU NEED 2 LET HIM KNOW HOW U FEEL AND DNT BEAT AROUND THE BUSH..HE SHOULD UNDERSTAND!!~***TWEETY WAZ HERE HELPING LIKE ALWAYZ***
JUS KEEP IT SO REAL N TELL HIM THAT U DNT WANT HIM, DNT BE FAKE ALL UR DAMN LIFE
The best thing for you to do is be honest with him. Tell him how you're really feelings.
Just tell him straight out what you think about it...and that you don't even have time for yourself..and that you need to let go, because you cant deal with the relationship anymore...
I'd be concerned too if a guy I'd dated for 21/2 months got that serious. I think you should take the direct approach. He deserves your honesty. Tell him that you feel differently than he does and that you aren't willing to commit to a long term relationship. You can always ease the blow by telling him that you think he is a great guy, that some girl will be lucky to have him one day, that you just aren't that girl, but would value his friendship long term. As long as you are honest and straightforward about your own intentions he will learn to deal with the situation. He seems like he may be the type that gets too attached too soon anyway. Maybe you can introduce him to someone else that you think he would be a good match with and you'll feel less guilty leaving him 'in the dust'. Good Luck

How do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?

His name is Marcel and we've been going out for about two and a half years and i think it's time to move on but he still is like totally in love with me. How do i drop him without breaking his heart?How do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?
oh man.. tough....


Its almost impossible to not break his heart. But you can soften to the blow. Sit down with just you two and tell him that you will always be friends and make sure he know that. Tell him that the past 2 years have been some of the best times of your life but you think that you guys would be better off as friends. add anything else that you think would helpHow do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?
tell him the truth. Now! because eventually he will find out the truth and not only will you break his heart you will create an enemy
Hey Nick. You just gotta pick between Dae', and Marcel. Sure Marcel is your ';baby'; but what about Dae' Tron? Dosen't he get a fair chance to have u? Let your heart tell you what to do and hopefully it won't be wrong!
its been too long, it's going to break his heart no matter what you do. just let him down gently but it will always hurt him

How do I actually break up with this guy?

I have been seeing this guy for about two and a half months now. Before we started dating we were friends but did not talk all the time. He knew that i was planning on moving to california but still insisted on dating me. I had no problem with it because it wasnt that serious. however, time went on and he started talking about weddings and houses....like with me! I got freaked out and I just dont really say anything. And now the time is getting closer to move and I want to be ';single'; for the small time im still home. I told him the other night that i dont think i will be able to handle a long distance relationship and blah blah blah. its so hard to have that responsibility, especially if im going to have to take the time to settle in and find a job, plus ill be going to school. he doesnt respond to anything i say and then ten minutes later he acts like everything is ok. why dont guys read between the lines!?!?! HELP ME!!How do I actually break up with this guy?
its your life and it sounds like hes thinking of HIS happiness, not what you want for your life. or he is getting mixed signals. if you are not planning on committing to this person, tell him w/no uncertinty. im glad we were friends, i have things to do before i go, im excited about my move and new life and i wish the best of everything for you. if he says YOU are the best thing for him, tell him you know what you want for your life (or at least the next chapter of it, whatever applies). you have to be direct with him. tell him that his suggestions of marriage and houses were HIS idea and that you never felt that way. it was only a couple months after all. dont let him push or guilt you into anything. men like that can be controlling in many ways and it may get even worse. i dont know this guy so i dont know if hes an ok guy or what, but go for what makes you happy and hopefully he will realize you mean what you say and let it go. wish him well. if it was nothing he said or did that made you not want to marry this guy (he might want reasons) you can say your focus from the start was on something else and it never changed. good luck to you both. (i dont mean to say TELL him this or that, im making suggestions. i put it that way for simplicitys sake)How do I actually break up with this guy?
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U need to tell him how u feel,tell him the truth I'm sure he will appreciate you more for telling him ,Just say i need to have a serious talk with you and that you are not ready for a relationship that you some space.
follow your heart. dont ask over yahoo answers. seriously
I FELL UR PAIN AND YOU NEED 2 BASICALLY JUST BE STRAIGHT FORWARD WITH HIM....YOU NEED 2 LET HIM KNOW HOW U FEEL AND DNT BEAT AROUND THE BUSH..HE SHOULD UNDERSTAND!!~***TWEETY WAZ HERE HELPING LIKE ALWAYZ***
JUS KEEP IT SO REAL N TELL HIM THAT U DNT WANT HIM, DNT BE FAKE ALL UR DAMN LIFE
The best thing for you to do is be honest with him. Tell him how you're really feelings.
Just tell him straight out what you think about it...and that you don't even have time for yourself..and that you need to let go, because you cant deal with the relationship anymore...
I'd be concerned too if a guy I'd dated for 21/2 months got that serious. I think you should take the direct approach. He deserves your honesty. Tell him that you feel differently than he does and that you aren't willing to commit to a long term relationship. You can always ease the blow by telling him that you think he is a great guy, that some girl will be lucky to have him one day, that you just aren't that girl, but would value his friendship long term. As long as you are honest and straightforward about your own intentions he will learn to deal with the situation. He seems like he may be the type that gets too attached too soon anyway. Maybe you can introduce him to someone else that you think he would be a good match with and you'll feel less guilty leaving him 'in the dust'. Good Luck

How do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?

His name is Marcel and we've been going out for about two and a half years and i think it's time to move on but he still is like totally in love with me. How do i drop him without breaking his heart?How do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?
oh man.. tough....


Its almost impossible to not break his heart. But you can soften to the blow. Sit down with just you two and tell him that you will always be friends and make sure he know that. Tell him that the past 2 years have been some of the best times of your life but you think that you guys would be better off as friends. add anything else that you think would helpHow do you break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?
tell him the truth. Now! because eventually he will find out the truth and not only will you break his heart you will create an enemy
Hey Nick. You just gotta pick between Dae', and Marcel. Sure Marcel is your ';baby'; but what about Dae' Tron? Dosen't he get a fair chance to have u? Let your heart tell you what to do and hopefully it won't be wrong!
its been too long, it's going to break his heart no matter what you do. just let him down gently but it will always hurt him

How do I get this guy to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?

I want this guy as my bf SOOOOOOOO bad!!!!


But he has a gf that breaks up with him ALL the time. PLEASE tell me how to break up him and his girlfriend. I WANT HIM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BAD!!!!!!How do I get this guy to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
just go up to him then kiss him... and tell him how you feel.... he will consider your point of view...How do I get this guy to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
It's not right to split up relationships. If they break up you can make a move but until then I think you should just leave it alone.
don't?





if he breaks up with her, because ';he has a gf that breaks up with him ALL the time'; then go after him





but don't try to split people up that just sucks

How do you break up witha guy that doesn't want to let you go?

we've been going out for a year and he loves me so much but still i know i cant trust him because he have lied many times and cheated on me once. i do love him and i forgive him but i'm tired of all the things he have been doing. i've given him many chances but he still failed me. i dont want to expect anything from him anymore. now i want a breakup but he is really holding on.he doesnt want to let me go. he's obssesed i may say...he said he will wait till we were like before.he said he'll change but i've heard those words many times before. i dont want to hurt him but how can i tell him that i just dont wanna get hurt anymore.now were still seeing each other pretending nothing happened but im still cold with him. i gave him one week as a chance to prove himself but i dont know what to decide. pls help me.How do you break up witha guy that doesn't want to let you go?
I'm a firm believer in cutting ties cold turkey for a successful breakup. Worst case, move away and start over without him.How do you break up witha guy that doesn't want to let you go?
It's certainly not going to be easy. It's almost like being addicted to something. You can't just quit cold-turkey. Start making plans with your friends more. This way you can slowly distance yourself from him and you won't have (as much) time to argue about your feelings. Spending time with your friends will also help you forget about how sad he is. It's going to be hard but you can't worry about his feelings right now. Take care of your heart!!





Good luck!!
hi,,, its common thing... gv chance 1 time becoz if he love u lot than he come back, or he change but if he doing time pass than he ingnoor but in ur case is tr with u.. talk him freely,, sit together n solve. noddy help u only u help Ur self u decide wt u want?
tell him u hate his smell
First, write him a letter explaining all you have said in your question. Of course be as nice and kind as you can, but you must be firm. Close the letter by saying you will meet him for dinner or some other public type place for a final personal meeting as you have too much respect for him to let it end by letter. Let him know that you don't mean to hurt him, but he must realize that you have been hurting for some time now...you are physically and mentally drained and you must move on. Ask him that if he has ever truly loved you to please respect your feelings and let you go on with your life. This is not easy for you but you have made the decision that you believe is right for you. Remember...you must be firm. If you meet and he began to get nasty or unruly, tell him you will leave immediately. By the way let someone know(who you can depend on) your plans and have them drop you off and be a phone call away to come and pick you up. You cannot be friends right away...maybe after enough time has passed and you are positive it can be only that as far as he is concerned.


The important thing here is that it must be done and you cannot put it off.





Good luck and keep safe!
he's a control freak and i've been seeing alot of this lately!! if he cheated on you and you never cheated on him then just leave him!! you say you don't want to hurt him but look at all the pain he's putting you through. he will become abusive if you stay with him. leave now, is the best advice and stop worrying about his feelings cause he wasn't worried about yours when he cheated on you!!!
Been there %26amp; you are in a dangerous situation-REPEAT dangerous. Break off-no games-no contact-no phone calls ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT! Stick very close to family/friends-VERY CLOSE! When you say, ';I will be here/there certain time';, stick to it %26amp; have someone watching out for you;try not to be alone away from work, etc.
say it over!!! and never call or revice call from him if he still doing it then call the police! he shall go jail!!
Tell him sorry, but you have no intentions of staying with a liar and a cheater. If he cannot accept that then you will be forced to add ';possessiveness with stalker tendancies'; to your list of things that pertain to him. Pretending nothing happened is the worse thing you could do.
dear,try to avoid him,try to spend your time in other things,not receive his call,and it is more better to meet him and tell all things that you don't feel good with him,and make the end of your love by mutual understanding
He doesn't love you the way you want to be loved. What kind of love does a person have who cheats. Its quite obviously he doesn't know what love is and just can't stand to lose.
well youll have to do it in a nice way
Poor guy. Get him to join the men's groups on Yahoo so as he has some support.





I spose honey, you just have to do it slowly. Be nice to him for there's nothing surer than that someone will do it to you. If you break him in peices then that's what you'll get.
Two Words: Restraining Order. Good luck.

How do you break up with a guy you have been dating for 5 months?

my boyfriend is really sweet but i know hes not the one and we both need to move on but he doesnt see it so im going to have to point it out and i have plenty of time im only a sophmore.How do you break up with a guy you have been dating for 5 months?
Just let him know it's not working out for you.





That you don't want to lie to him and that it's better if you both move on.How do you break up with a guy you have been dating for 5 months?
Be honest with him...you can use the truth but they never take it that way at first....we can still be friends... but most of all do it soon, they longer you wait, the more it could effect the relationship. Sounds like he isnt going to take it so well. Start out another way...by suggesting that you two start doing more things away, with other people, than always with each other but don't knock him out of the circle completely. He may see that seeing other people is a good thing too. Use examples of why you are not ready or want ';him';. Be honest most of all.
Be completely upfront and honest with him. You really like him, but the more you get to know him, the more you see your relationship being better as just friends. and you hope that you can still be friends, but for the time being, you don't want to be in a serious relationship with him. You are only a sophomore and you do have plenty of time, and so does he. Good luck!
Your a sophomore and your saying ';he's not the one'; are you serious. I should find out where you live slap the stupid out of you. Are you trying to get married and have kids at 16 or what? Just live your life. Half the kids at my school get new boyfriends and girlfriends every week just for sex. They are far from thinking about finding true love and so should you. But I'm not saying go have sex just life your life.
well just say i don't think we have a spark anymore i think we should just leteach otherr go they say if you love something so much you set it free and that's what im doing for you and maybe one day you will fly back to me but now isn't the time for us to be together im rele sorry i rele like you but theirs just no......intense in our relationship anymore plz understand babe
Babe the last thing you need to do is draw this out end it be honest to yourself and to him follow this through life and you will be true to your self
Tell him that he is a great guy and you enjoyed being with him. But, you just do not feel the same and you want to date other people. Just, apologize and ask to still be friends if thats something you would want.
if theres not a legit reason to break up then why are you going to do it?








and if you do want to break up just tell him you want to break up.


your going to hurt him even if you sugar coat it.
Just sit him down and tell him that you two have drifted apart, and you would like to remain friends but that's all you can see yourself as.
You should really just break it off with him as hard as it is


The sooner the better


the longer the worse cause you'll just be leading him longer


Break it off with him nowwww


Tell him in person.
Tell him straight up I'm not ready for a big commitment and I don't feel this relationship is going to go anywhere or last so I'm breaking it off. He'll be hurt, but it's better than lying to him.
Tell him exactly what you said in this question. Good luck!
I've had to do this many times and it works


Make a pie and start fingering it.


then put your fingers in his mouth
just walk up to him and be like........';bye';........then walk away....
Say your pregnant. He'll run off
just tell him that you dont think its working out and your sorry
tell him you have aids

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How do I break up with an emotionally unstable guy?

I'm going out with this guy, and he's really nice, but lately, he's been being very jealous and controling and I can't take it anymore. I need to end things, and the sooner, the better. But I really don't want to hurt him, because he tells me VERY often how much he loves me, and that he wouldn't have a reason to get out of bed if he didn't have me. How's the best way to break up with him without hurting him or breaking his heart?How do I break up with an emotionally unstable guy?
You can't.


It's call'd BREAKING up for a reason honey.


The least you could do is do it face to face, %26amp;%26amp; as nicely %26amp;%26amp; honestly as possible.

Do girls break up with guys by just ignoring them?

I was going out with this girl for 1.5 months, and we didn't do it. We had a lot of really great dates, and we were getting closer every time. I'm pretty sure she wanted to, but than she went to San Francisco to visit for a week. I text her telling her I still wanted to go out with her, but she didn't respond. A week later I text her asking how SF was, but no response. Did she break up with me?Do girls break up with guys by just ignoring them?
she is either playing mind games with you or she dumped you.Do girls break up with guys by just ignoring them?
uhm i would say she was probably going to fast for you anyway leave her alone sometimes its best.

I want to break up with a guy but dont know how to do it.?

ok i am talking to this guy on the phone for about 3weeks and he`s really nice and he already got me stuff. but we are not bf and gf yet. how can i break up with him with out takeing his stuff and hurting him.I want to break up with a guy but dont know how to do it.?
dont do it

Why doesn't a guy break up with a girl when...?

everything annoys him about her(her laugh,little things she does, and how she can't talk about somethings),complains about her one of being shes a *****,mentioned that he made a mistake in dating her and seems unhappy in the relationship? And says he doesnt know whether to break up with her or not and they arent sexually involved.Why doesn't a guy break up with a girl when...?
well there must be something about her he likes, or else why would he still be dating her...or maybe shes just really hot and he likes to be able to brag to his friends that hes going out with a hot girl like that.Why doesn't a guy break up with a girl when...?
usually for reasons like...maybe she pays for everything of his. could be he's keeping her as a ';trophy'; (like ';i can't believe i got a girl that hot';), reasons like that seem to be the answer usually. my friend, whose a girl, complains 24/7 to me about her bf but only stays with him for fear of being alone. actually i have a few girlfriends who did that (stay with their bf's because they figured they wouldn't have another one in awhile)
because he really cares about her more or he wouldn't put up with it. Maybe she's complaining cause she know what kind of man she's got. She must be doing something ';great'; to make up for all those annoying things. Just because a guy tells you he's not sleeping with a girl doesn't mean it's true. Your gobbling up his lies-you must really like him. Just remember if you get him-what comes around-goes around. If a cheater get the person they want-they spend the rest of the relationship paranoid they'll be cheated on
sounds like he is just wanting security, wanting someone to come home to whenever he wants, But it sounds like he is a cheater at heart, it would probably be best for you to get out that relationship hun!!!








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maybe he never really liked her or had feelings for her.


and he just got annoyed from her and he was using her, and she complained bout everything on top of his head and so just let everything out.
Because hate is a very strong emotion.
good question, maybe he doesnt want to hurt her feelings.

What's the deal with a girlfriend who starts dating a guy days after a break-up?

I dated my girlfriend for a year and a half. She was 20 and I was 27 (I know, my first mistake). Despite our age differences, we were very much in love (or so I thought). In late September, she wanted to “take a break”. Not being an idiot, I knew “take a break” is girl talk for “I want to meet other guys.” So I told her if that’s what she wants, we’re done. Her family told her she was crazy to leave me (I’m 7 years older than her and HER family thought we should be together. That’s how well I treated her). She didn’t want to lose me, so we didn’t break up. For the following weeks, we had problems and I eventually broke up with her in late December because she was acting like we were “on a break” (for example, giving guys her number, not telling guys she meets that she had a boyfriend and such). A few weeks after our official break up, she texts me to tell me she miss me and if I’ve meet anyone else. I told her no, because being in love with her, I couldn’t possibly even think about dating someone else. She didn’t think the same way. She told me that she meet a guy “a couple of weeks ago and they just hit it off”. I did the math and that meant she meet the guy a few days after we officially broke up and then started dating him.





My problem: Does this mean she had met the guy (hooked up with him?) when we were still in our “break“ period and then she decided to go to girlfriend status with this guy? Also, if you date a guy for a year and a half, is it really that easy to go right into another relationship with someone else? Two months later and I still can’t stop thinking about her and she jumped into a relationship WHILE telling me she thinks about me every day! Is the guy a rebound, doing it to make me jealous, or is she actually happy to be with him? The way I look at it, if you’re in love with someone as much as she said she was in love with me, how can you move on days after the last time you saw that person? I’m just second guessing our relationship and whether she really did care for me at one point. Because her actions now say she never cared for me.What's the deal with a girlfriend who starts dating a guy days after a break-up?
i definitely doubt that she NEVER cared about you. but i have a feeling that around the time of her first wanting to ';take a break,'; she began losing emotional (and/or physical) attraction for you.


for her to quickly move on like that says (in my opinions) two things: she just can't stand being alone, and she's sort of immature. i can almost guarentee that this new guy is just a rebound, but don't expect her to come back to you. but...if she does, be careful...it looks like this girl doesn't know what she wants, and you seem like too great of a guy to be tossed around like this.


healing takes time...especially from a long-term relationship. just take it day by day, but definitely don't purposely dwell on her. If you still have momentos from her (letters, gifts, etc), get rid of them...looking back will do nothing.


Good luck...i'm sure that you'll have no problem finding someone who will really appreciate everything that you do for her.What's the deal with a girlfriend who starts dating a guy days after a break-up?
I've been there...I even told my ex that I wanted a break and he acted like he didn't care so I moved on and then he came back telling me he loved me.....well it was too late. In your situation I think she is trying really hard to move on but make you jealous at the same time...her meeting up with that guy was probably before the break really ended.....as for the giving out her number, I think she thought that she might not have another chance with you so she decided to open herself to options. She did love you and who knows, she still might, but she's also probably hurt and her pride is stung.
She may have really cared for you, but you have to remember, she is still young, and sometimes, you can fall in and out of love before you can break a stick. But don't you sit around worrying about when she met him, get out and start to meet new friends.
Prolly she was boffing him before she dropped the bomb....
I agree with you, her actions point to that she didn't have the same feelings that you did.





But also, just to let you know, ';taking a break'; in girl code doesn't always mean ';I want to meet someone else';. In this case, it sounds like you were right, but just be aware that not all of us speak that same language.
she is on rebound with this guy. and i think she could of loved you before but lost that loving feeling. so I think it would be wise to move on and find a girl who wil repsect you more then she did. and its her loss not yours.
You are analyzing this way too much. What's done is done. Let her go about her business and you go about yours. You seem hurt and she does not. Fact is, the relationship is over so don't waste precious time dwelling on something that is obviously not there now. You did have good times. You did have bad times. Don't get caught up in either. Let God handle it and you move one as best you can... and stay away from her.
okayyy umm why are u soft its over
That is a good question. I was in the same boat and I still cant figure out the answer to that. She said she still loved me and everything, even after she broke up with me, but not even an hour later, she was dating someone else. She said she wasnt use to being single and she wanted to have someone in her life. I mean, I was good to her, anything she wanted, I was right there before she even asked, but I suppose it was never good enough. Well, if you are that great of a guy, she will realize that she made a horrible mistake and you may have someone better than her and she will be wondering why she did what she did. So, my advice to you, find someone and make sure you can make her feel even worse for making that mistake.
Awe...., When someone is on the rebound, its usually to get over feeling rejected. Well, that's what it used to mean anyway. I would seek out other women, I'm sure you will find many more and do better. Don't feel overly rejected either, I have a feeling that she may have just felt like she was missing whatever mystery that she thinks finding a monogamous relationship might have kept her from discovering because she wasn't out among the single seeking a date world to long at the age of 20. Sooner of later, chances are that she will get real tired of looking and decide she made a mistake. But by that time you will have found some other bomb shell and not want her back. You never know if timing would ever be right to strike up a relationship again. But one thing that is pretty common, even those who have been married for decades occasionally wonder what it would have been like if....

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How long should i wait after a guy breaks up with a girl to make a move?

So this guy i like just broke up with his girlfriend. we have chemistry and are friends and i actually think it can work, but i want to give him some space as he just broke up with her. How long should i wait before i make a move/ how long does he need his own space?How long should i wait after a guy breaks up with a girl to make a move?
probably around 3 weeks or a month. depends on what hes like. if he a player than just a few days haha

I've been with my boyfriend almost for two months.How do you know when a guy wants to break up with you?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost about two months. And I REALLY like him. He's a year younger than me,but the thing is i don't care. I really do love him.


The thing is,I don't know if he wants to break up with me. HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN A BOY WANTS TO BREAK UP WITH YOU?I've been with my boyfriend almost for two months.How do you know when a guy wants to break up with you?
when your around him does he just want hang out with other girls? does he not respond to texts/calls often? these are pretty big indicatorsI've been with my boyfriend almost for two months.How do you know when a guy wants to break up with you?
I am curious to know why you feel that he wants to break up with you - has he suggested such a thing? or does he not seem happy or satisfied with the relationship?





Is the relationship going well? Are you both doing things together and having a good time when you are together? Or are you always fighting and arguing?





I would think that if a boy wanted to break up with you, he would not be considerate of you or your feelings, make and break dates with you, show little or no interest in you, etc.





Are you being insecure? or are there problems with this relationship already? Have you tried asking him his feelings about this relationship? Are you both open and honest about your feelings? If you find it difficult to talk with him, and be open and honest, then maybe this relationship is not for you.





Good Luck!
Trust your instincts. No matter how much you love the guy, if you feel there is something wrong there probably is. Depends on the sort of person he is though as to whether you bring it to a head and ask him if he has a problem or wait for him to bring it up. Being as you have been together for two months this is probably your first hick-up the relationship has had which makes it hard to know what he is like when he needs to get a problem off his chest.





Talk to him, communication is the only wayto go.
I boy breaks up with you when he's either found someone new, or he just not that into you. Warning signs:


1. When you kiss or hug him he's not that into it (if you are kissing or hugging yet)


2. when he doesn't look into your eyes when you are having a conversation, stares far off into space


3. Avoids you


4. Talks ';secretly'; with his friends more than usually


5. his friends give you weird looks, your friends give you weird looks


6. he doesn't answer your phone calls or text messages or emails.


7. Doesn't smile when you look at him


8. Unhappy lately


9. When you try to flirt with him he doesn't like it (not into it) or says ';Stop';, isn't playful anymore


10. People start muttering in the halls that he is going to break up with you


That's it. I hope I helped.
You just ask him if thing are okay with the two of you or if he wants to break up. simple enough.
Why do you care? If you really love him, you won't let him go anyway, will you?
f he doesn't seem eager to see you
okay u will know [=

How can a guy break up with an email?

Everything was fine and I had done absolutely nothing to hurt him. Then, he sent me a furious, extremely jealous email, he said he had found another woman. Never heard of someone else until this. No other explanation, nothing, dont answer my calls, nothing. What would make someone do that? I've moved on since I figure he's not worth it. But I still would like an explanation. Of course, only HE knows.How can a guy break up with an email?
ahha.. why bother, he is such a coward to do it over the email. i think you should be celebrating that you never end up with him. he isnt worth it!How can a guy break up with an email?
i dont no, u no sometimes people luv drama, mayb he only wanted drama or he could have had suspicions? u were right 2 move on though

Why would a guy break up with you because he likes you too much??!?

Yup he broke up with me citing that





a) he's overwhelmed by his feelings and likes me too much





b) he (at 27!!) needs to find out who he is and can't do this by dating only one person.





Explain to me how someone could break up with you because they like you too much %26amp; because you ask them to only date you (but not be their gf, see them a lot or get involved in their life).





I am so scared something precious has been thrown away.





I'm 23 and have never had good sex with anyone before, now I'm scared in won't happen again.





I want him so much I don't know how to cope ...





Why would he do this? Does it mean he was dating/sleeping around all the time? Is it an excuse or is he just terrified of something?Why would a guy break up with you because he likes you too much??!?
errm to be honest (i am a 20 years old male in case this information will help you to judge whether i am worth listening to) from the sound of that it is just an excuse, a very bad one, people don't break up with others because they like them to much, it's the complete opposite, and as for the second part, about ';finding out who he is';, if anyone meets another person who they like so much that they think is worth spending lifetime with, they'd keep them with them, and ';finding out who he is'; is going to be very low down in priority. the only reason i could think of for someone wanting to break up because of liking someone too much is either because it is influencing their career badly, or that for some reason the relationship is impossible or very difficult, like... long distance, family objection etc... but to be honest, i think it's just a bad excuse.Why would a guy break up with you because he likes you too much??!?
He's lying to you...so he won't hurt you.

How does a guy break up with a first?

Ok there is a girl i bin going out with but recently I just dont like her anymore and Im ashamed to say its cus I like someone else now. anyways I am her first bf and i dont know how to break up with her as she is overly obsessed with me and I dont want her to turn into a lez over me and hate all guys and I dont want to make her cry (Im her first so lol)How does a guy break up with a first?
Sit her down in a semi-private or private place and explain that you just don't feel it's working. Tell the truth, be nice, admit your faults.


Don't go out with any other chicks for a week or two. You want her to believe you, not feel stupid for thinking you were worth her time.





You are ignorant. She's not going to turn gay. She'll just get her feelings hurt and maybe she won't date again for a while (or maybe she'll become a whore). It's not ';LOL'; that you were her first but now you want to break up with her. It sucks majorly for her. Did you know when you started seeing her that you weren't that interested?How does a guy break up with a first?
You got bored right? Ok first of all. See if the other girl is even interested in you. Secondly, if she is then try to bore your current gf. When she feels that things aren't working out between you two, she'll want to break up to. but do it properly and respect her feelings.

How do you break up with guy whose in love with you?

and not only is he in love, but he's deeply madly in love, and you care for him, but do not love him back in the same way, and find it maddening to stay in such a relationship?How do you break up with guy whose in love with you?
You have a right to your own happiness and you don't own his feelings. If you're not happy, you need to get out of that relationship. It will hurt him, badly, but you need to do it. By dragging him on, you're actually going to hurt him more when you inevitably break up with him in the future. Just tell him that you're not happy with the way that things are and you need to do what's best for you. Tell him that you feel it is unfair to him if you stay, when you know that you don't want to be there. He'll beg and he'll plead, but honey, you gotta do what's right for you. It's your life, not his.How do you break up with guy whose in love with you?
pretty much like that. Tell him you care for him deeply but you are afraid that youre feelings arnt on par with his and right now that doesnt seem fair to be in a relationship where one half is giving all his love plus some and the other half right now doesnt have that to give.
Give him signs that you are not intrested! then tell him.
You just have to know that breaking up with him is the best thing to do. If he is in love with you and you are not in love with him it is not fair to him to stay with him. He deserves to love somebody who loves him back.
Tell him ';it's not working out';.


If that doesn't work say ';It's not you, it's me';.


If he's a real retard and can't figure out what's going on then say


';I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU';


If he's so totally stupid that he can't figure this one out, then I suggest you withdraw totally and buy a firearm for self protection.
dont shower for a month haha sike tell him how you feel dont toy with him if he doesnt want to listen then avoid him at all cost no eye contact no conversation zip zero none dont play! when he backs off a lil bit u can talk a little to him but make it a point that you do not feel the same way as him

moto guzzi

girls myspace

How long was your longest break up which ended up with you guys getting back together?

How long did you guys break up for?





because its been a week for me and my ex and im starting to lose hope..





:(How long was your longest break up which ended up with you guys getting back together?
i don't know if you call this a break up but me and my now fiancee dated when we were younger and split up, then 4 years later we got back together and have been together 5 years. from clare m


p.s it's way too soon to be loseing hope.How long was your longest break up which ended up with you guys getting back together?
if you break up, there has to be a reason for it? think about it!


I am not in the habit of breaking up and then getting back together.


Once my boat floats your way, get on it, or continue to swim towards some other boat! I don't have time for love me/love me nots.
1 1/2 years
Its been two months almost 3 and were getting back together after bball season
a few hours or a whole nite lol

Will this guy break up with his long distance girlfriend for me?

theres a guy I've been close to since new years, he told me that he has a girlfriend now even though he still likes me and he was dreading to tell me. he wants to be friends but he still likes me?





i really like him, but I don't want lose him as a friend but it seems too hard to keep him as a friend while seeing him with someone else..





he even told me that I deserve better than him and was naming a bunch of reasons almost as if he isn't good enough for me...





i told him I needed time, and he was like ok but please don't take long because I'm going to go crazy without talking to you





what should I do? and why would he say I deserve better than him?





he was never seeing her before me, it was just recently..





he told me today he didn't hardly sleep, and that his whole day was horrible and told my best guy friend about it. but then we talked about maybe hanging out he got weird and said maybe his girlfriend should come even though he wants to be with me? while he said his girlfriend wouldn't care if he and I hunged out or talked but then today he claims she might get jealous..





plus his girlfriend lives like an hour away, and she's 3 years younger than he and i? PLUS HE HAS NOT SEEN HER SINCE SUMMER! he even told me he is unsure about being in a relationship with her due to the distance.


plus he said I can't flirt but he flirts with me saying that he likes the cold because you can make body heat with another person...?





did he ever really like me?


why does he care and feel like a complete jerk and crap..





he went to go to the mall with his gf, but continued to text me. then he only was with her for barely an hour, he claims his friend was flirting with her so he and his friend left?





im so confused. he told me before he was going to see her that 'im not happy, if you're not happy'





he'd text me every day, up till 1-3am





he got jealous when he found out about me and my best guy friend going to prom together, he told me if i dated other guys he'll get jealous.





he tells me how boring his girlfriend is, and is already making plans to come see me teach and dance pretty much all day. and wants to hug me and such.





he told me he likes me more than her, but he didnt know how i felt. hes made plans to see me twice next week, and he flirts with me and such.Will this guy break up with his long distance girlfriend for me?
he has a girlfriend, I would leave him alone...put yourself in her shoes

Why would a guy break up like this?

I went out for this guy for 6 months, and i know he really cared about me, i truly believe we both loved eachother. We hung out all the time, we all got along with eachothers friends, we talked about anything, got along with fanily, and even up till the end he said he loved me.





Then he got suspended from school so i didnt see him through the day, id call him later on, and there would never be an answer, on the computer id see if he wanted to hang and he was too tired. All of a sudden nothing, he wouldnt talk to me at all, he never really broke up with me when you think about it, but i mean i got the idea.





I hate how he did it cause i never really got to hear why he got tired of me or whatever.


I still think about it all the time and its been a few months, i cant get over him.Why would a guy break up like this?
Some guys are like that. It's the ultimate indifference act. Not even caring to explain anything to you. A definite sign that he's not a keeper.Why would a guy break up like this?
if u guys stopped talking after he got suspended maybe his parents wouldnt allow him to use the phone....if u talked to him on the computer and he made exuses not to go out then maybe it was because he couldnt not because he didnt want to......when he got his privileges back he was probably so embarrassed he would rather stop talking then to explain what happen .........but thats just a theory

How do you break-up with a guy that you really love,but if you don't,he could get arrested?

i really like my boyfriend,but i have to break up with him.i didn't realize that he could be arrested for going out with me.please help me.How do you break-up with a guy that you really love,but if you don't,he could get arrested?
Wait until you tun 18 and then talk with him , it may be too late then. You may find someone better insted of him. Does he love you? You can always keep it on the downlow if its something Else right?How do you break-up with a guy that you really love,but if you don't,he could get arrested?
Either way, you're going to have to leave him. If you don't he's going to be arrested, therefore he'll be leaving you. The answer to this question is obvious: Do it and get it out of the way before it happens in a much more harsh way.
wait why would he be arrested???





and i would tell him the reason behind it and that you love him but u just have to do it.
One question, would you go to jail for him? If you love him and want the best for him let him go. wait...what did he do?

How do I break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?

Well, I've been dating this guy for about a month and its just really not working for me. I thought I liked him but I really have no feelings for him. Hes not a good boyfriend at all. He says '; I love you'; but I know he doesnt mean it and I know Im not inlove with him





What can I say to break up with him?How do I break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?
Could a guy break up with you without hurting your feelings? Probably not. Just try to be sympathetic and kind.How do I break up with a guy without hurting his feelings?
It's gonna hurt. The best thing to do is treat it like ripping off a band-aid - a brief moment of intense pain is way easier to deal with than weeks of slowly building agony.
Tell him you aren't happy and that you don't think you are ever going to be, in this relationship. DO NOT bullshit him or make up a reason, it isn't fair. People want honesty, there's nothing worse than saying, ';I'm just too busy for a relationship right now.'; People know it's not true. And yeah, if he feels for you it is going to hurt. But you can make it hurt a little less by being honest.

How do you break up with a guy who is really into you but you're not into him?

me and this guy have been dating for 4 months tomorrow but i just don't really like him anymore. i would just break up with him but he is like really into me and is always telling me how much he loves me and stuff and i dont want to hurt him really bad bc before we went out we were best friends. please help?How do you break up with a guy who is really into you but you're not into him?
There is no good way to end a relationship , especially when it comes to relationships with friends. However , to let it keep going will cause more pain in the end then to just end it at this level. I'm not sure how it will be handed between you two but if the two of you were mature enough to have the relationship , you both should be mature enough to understand each others needs. its better to be trueful and allow each other to be with someone you both can love equally.How do you break up with a guy who is really into you but you're not into him?
just tell him how you feel and if he really does love you he will understand

moto guzzi

girls myspace

Whats the best way to break up with a guy? (guys help please)?

I've been going out with this guy for just over two months. and before now we were best friends and before that we went out for a while sometime last year until our friend was flirting with him and we broke up.. and i'm finally over him and i've loved him for ages but now its just gone and i dont know how to break up with him... and he asked me on a date on saturday but i dont want to say yes and then just dump him.


please help me.


Whats the best way to break up with a guy? (guys help please)?
uh bye looserWhats the best way to break up with a guy? (guys help please)?
Your friend was flirting with him? Sounds like an excuse to me but never the less a REASON.


Go with it.


It will be easier to just to make up an excuse and let him know you are the jealous type and are better off alone at this point in your life.


Sometimes it is easier to make up a little white lie then tell the truth in order to get out of certain situations i have found in my too many years of being on this rotten earth.





Later when you move into a new relationship and if he asks any questions, ( if he is still around), you can explain to him you worked through your jealousy issues. tee hee






Dont feel powerless,





You are in the drivers seat.. If you dont wanna go.... just say no. Find a good movie to watch or go out with other friends...


Your reasons certainly justify your decision... Remember, men are powerless with out female validation. You have the power of female persuasion..


Excersize your power wisely, slowly and you will find yourself with someone that won't be tempted by others. You will also discover the most powerful motivating force in human nature for a guy is a girl worth waiting for.





We (guys) can move mountains and go to no lengths to prove ourselves for a gal that respects herself and makes us respect her or wait for the forbidden fruit.





Set your expectations high and take no prisoners... Follow your instincts and feel no guilt... Just say no and let it go... You have a built in ability to think with your head... Us guys... well... we think with our ***** the first 35 years of our lifes.....





Dont look back..





Best of Luck..






just be honest if you guys were friends before just go back to that or if you dont want too then just say so separate yourself from the drama and free you mind


';there's never a right time to say good bye, but you know, you gotta go, your separate way-e-ays, i know it's hard but you gotta do this, and its killin you,cuz there's never a right time, a right time to say good bye';
I assuming you said yes... and that would be the main source of your problem. Here is why: YOU SAID YES WHEN YOU DIDNT LIKE HIM!





ok on to the question part of your question.





Answer: say no. oops too late for that.





Answer 2: (only needed if you messed up on answer one) Just be honest, you told strangers about your lame teenage drama problems, so tell your lame crush/boyfriend/ex/whatever/blah. Also, don't ask such worthless questions.
i dated my bestguyfriend for a year.


when we broke up.. i didnt tell any of my friends.. i just went straight to him and talked to him about how we need to try new things.. we hugged and then went to lunch and sat with the rest of our friends.. we are still friends (:





try to do something nice like that.. just unawkward and undramatic
i had the same problem with my ex girlfriend





you just need to sit down with him, and break it to him gently.





just explain that that is what happened.... say ur busy on saturday, unless uve already accepted





if he truly loves you he will understand,, these things happen








good luck
will i was in the same situation except i was with this guy 4 9 to 10 months and i finally told him and he got sad so i said nevermine then i had to dump him over myspace it was hard 4 me but it depends on wat type of guy he is?
sit him down, look himi directly in the eys, and slap the hell outta him, hit him in the crotch so hard he'll need to go scuba diving to find his jewels, and take his money. he'll get the picture
Tell him that to still want to be friends, Tell him you want to talk and meet him someplace. Tell him that it didn't work out but that he is a nice guy.STILL STAY FRIENDS!
tell him before the date defenitly he might try to step it up a notch














http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081004122713AAa3SvM
meet up with him or call (if you are scared on his reaction)and tell him how you truly feel. guys hate lies from girls. Really.
Tell the truth, always tell the truth. but be nice. you do not want to burn down bridges
well u arent really going out with him from wat i can tell


j say u dont really want to go on the date right now


and u dont hv to break up with him if ur not going out
its different for different guys, i would jsut want u to be straight forward about it.
dump him on the date or don't show up
Maybe if you want to say no he my not date with you.
NEVER:


Ask a friend to do it for you! It is so confusing to the guy and he will be bugging you to see if it is true!





YOU SHOULD:


Call him and tell him or with tell him with a note.... Maybe you should tell him up front so that it is easier and if you still want to be his friend tell him you just want to be friends. Don't be scared! It will work out! :-)

How do i get a guy to break up with me?

we're both teens. and hes always the one who gets broken up with, and he takes it really hard.


so i was wondering...


how do i get him to break up with me?


what can i do that irks him?How do i get a guy to break up with me?
Find him a new girl, introduce them, and turn her loose on him. Then just step back and enjoy the show.How do i get a guy to break up with me?
I know it's really hard, but you should be the one to break up with him if you don't feel anything anymore.


It's wrong to pretend to be someone you're not or do things that you normally wouldn't do just so he'll break up with you.


It's gonna be hard, but you'll thank yourself for it in the long run.
hahahahaha watch how to lose a guy in 10 days. be a pain in the butt, say that u two are gonna get married, ask him for baby names, give him an embarrassing nickname and then call him that in front of his friends. hahahaha theres a really long list of things you can do.
flirt with other guys, dont pay much attention to him, and act like you arent like the realationship. it worked for me
just start being mean to him


flirt with all the guys yuu see


when hes talking dont listen


if he trys kissing yuu dont kiss him
cheat or break up with him. you can tell him im ur boyfriend





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Try letting him catch you sucking his best friends cock. That should work.
dump him and he will get over it.

How can a guy break up with his gf and then get engaged to a girl he only knew for a month and half?

Does this make sense??How can a guy break up with his gf and then get engaged to a girl he only knew for a month and half?
maybe she was willing to give him a threesome...gotta snap them women up quickly!!!!!!

How do I break up with a guy who I want to stay friends with?

He hasn't done anything wrong, and i think he still likes me, but he isn't the kind of guy I could stay with. We were friends before we started dating and I'd like to stay friends, but I don't want to date anymore. I need help on figuring out how to break up without hurting his feelings because he's told me some pretty personal stuff. Please, anyone been in a similar situation with some advice? Any and all help is appreciated.How do I break up with a guy who I want to stay friends with?
ive been here before :(. the best thing you can do is be honest. tell him in a nice but sincere way that you still care about him but you don't want to be in a committed relationship. tell him that you still want to be his friend and that he's been a friend to you and that you don't regret being with him, but you just feel it would be better to be friends. you have to do what's best for you, even if it hurts a few feelings along the way. if your nice though, he'll learn to deal with it in no time :) good luck!How do I break up with a guy who I want to stay friends with?
been there. done that. tell him exactly what you wrote here .. i have to warn you though it WILL be rocky at first you just both have to want the friendship and eventually time will heal. this sounds corny but i almost lost my best friend to a relationship.
Don't make it sound harsh just say that you had a great time dating him but no matter how much you enjoyed yourself you just dont find that he is your special man.
I've been the dumper and the one dumped! So, let's say that I am experienced.





now...there is no easy way to dump anyone. Learn that if you are going to be dating and loving and whatnot. You will hurt his feelings. But after a certain amount of time you can be friends. If he really liked/loved you then give it a month or two before you go throwing friendship around.


If he takes the break-up like a pro then be his friend right away. Take your time though and be sure he isn't what you want!
hiiiii............... i m Amit from INDIA. i ma new member. if u dont like him ,u leave him but pls think about him also before leave him. the samething will also happend with u, just think about it pls

How do I break-up with a guy in a 1 yr relationship?

I've been dating this guy for over a year and he was the first guy i've ever been with. He just lost his father,one of his brothers, and one of his sisters. I'm moving away and I told him that we can still go out and that we would just have an open relationship. He's completley in love with me and hfe doesn't care at all for his own life. We've been thru so much with each other but I can't lead him on anymore. If I just take off and were still going out then he'll definitley come find me, but I want him to move on. If I just break up with him I know he will definetley try to kill himself What should I do?How do I break-up with a guy in a 1 yr relationship?
Tell him that you just want to take a break for a while and tell him that you still like him but as friends and say that he'll always be in oyur heart as a friend and write to him email him IM him just keep in touch but as FRIENDS! hope this helps!How do I break-up with a guy in a 1 yr relationship?
ok first off get him some help and girl there are penlty of fish in the sea to choose from u dont have to live your life worrying about it if u get him some professional help, if hes serious about killing himself.








Look @ this QUESTION:





http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070727224327AA4TXNx%26amp;r=w
if he wants to kill himself he has other issues.





it's simple leave him, tell him it's over that's it.


Rather tell him your sleeping with someone





=-)





=-p
well he needs to know the truth and if you really care for himlike you say you do you need to see that he gets help because noone for any reason should try to kill himself
olala.. hard situation you're in. introduce interesting girls to him. tut.. tut... sorry. i'm having a hard time with your situation too. just don't do anything right now that will cause him to kill himself. howie... i can't think clearly if i'm in this kind of situation. ask a counselor what to do with him. i'm sorry but be strong, you'll find a way out without hurting him. if you can re-direct his attention to someone else, that would help a lot.

How to break up with a guy???

Im dating this guy and i REALLY like him and all but im going to school tomorrow and at this school and there are 3 other schools combined into one and im worried that i'll start to not like him... for future reference, how would i break up with him??How to break up with a guy???
I had the same prob


I hadnt seen my bf in like 3 weeks and we were going into high school which meant that there were going to be like 3 other schools going there and i was worried that i would start to like someone else...and i wanted to know how i would tell him if i wanted to....but to be honest with u...ur prob not going to like anyone else right away.


I mean u may see someone that u like (looks wise) but no on is going to appeal to u instantly. Most guys come off really nice in the beginning of school and then after a few weeks you see how they really are and u are happy to have ur boyfriend and are glad that he is actually a decent guy...


But if u do like someone else then i would let him down easy without telling him that u like someone else. And dont go out with the other person for a while because that would just be a horrible thing to do. because then he would deff know that u broke up with him for this other guy. Just tell him that school is really stressing u out and u dont want the added stress of having a boyfriend or something like that.


Good Luck!!! =]

How do you get a guy to break up with you?

I still like this guy daniel but i can't help my feeling for a guy named keegan. Keegan asked me out and i want to say yes but i need to break up with daniel first can you help me?





~~THIS IS FOR YOU BRITT~~How do you get a guy to break up with you?
Just tell Daniel that you dont love him anymore and you like another guy. Its better if you tell yourself and tell him you dont want to hurt him at his back so your telling him now, than go out with Keegan with you teo still attached.





Or, do things that he dislikes, dont answer his texts or emails %26amp; calls. Dont, go him! If he asks you out, make stories so you wont go! Stop making time with him.How do you get a guy to break up with you?
You should never leave someone to be with someone else.


You obviously don't love Daniel so you shouldn't be with him but leaving him for someone else is just wrong.


Your actions make you who you are.


Who are you?
I think you should just break up with him. If you go out with that guy, I am sure if he has any self respect, he will brake with you!
Lol, try giving him signals.
watch ';how to lose a guy in 10 days'; for some ideas. that movie is hilarious!
kiss daniel!!





[yeah, and if you kiss him, he'll dump you]

How to break up with a sensitive guy who really likes you?

Theres this guy who really likes me but I dont like him.Im scared to break up with im and I dont know how.We went out on a couple of dates and became a couple.The spark isnt there anymore and I want to break up.Got any tips?(hes really senstive/nice)How to break up with a sensitive guy who really likes you?
Just don't lie to him, yes the truth will hurt, but just be honest. It will help in the long run rather then having him always wondering why you don't like him, plus he just might keep coming back to you if he thinks there is always a chance.How to break up with a sensitive guy who really likes you?
just tell him how u feel
The longer you wait the harder it will be.


If you really don't like him you need to tell him your honest feelings, or your just going to hurt him worse. The sooner you break it off, the sooner he can get over it and move on.
Start saying things and behaving the ways he does not like in a girl.Be gradual and dont be abrupt in this.He will break off himself.
Aww...I understand. He's going to be hurt. There's sadly no way around that. But just be kind and honest about it. Don't drag it out. Tell him that you really did like him, but you realize now that you see him as only a friend. Don't let him get the idea that you will like him again later, because then he will be hurt when ';later'; never comes.





I wish you the best. That's a tough one.
Keep it quick, short and simple. Meet him or coffee or whatever in a neutral place and tell him. Just tell him that your feelings have changed etc....and the relationship isn't really working for you. Don't get drawn into a long discussion, details - it won't help anything at all . Short and simple, a clean break. There is no one not to hurt him, but this is the best way.
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back

What is the best way to break up with a guy?

i need to break up with my boyfriend over the fun today or tomorrow becouse i cant see him this week i'm oout to disney..when school starts we were willing to see each other before and after school except there is one problem he has band practice everyday after school!! he keeps telling me he will quit marching band for me but i love him soo much that i dont want him to quit for me he is soo good and its his dream i dont want him to give this up..so how do i break up with him? this is so painful for me nd it will be for him 2!! i dont know what to say HELP plz What is the best way to break up with a guy?
if you love him you should find other ways to meet rather then quiting. When there is a will THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY. Anyway if you feel like quiting, just tell him that it is over and that you do not feel the same towards him as you did before/What is the best way to break up with a guy?
dont break up, work on things, relationships take more then love they take hard work and understanding





there is no reason if you realy want to be togheter you cant overcome the obsticles





you think you got problems? i know plenty people who had to overcome the obsticle called the atlantic, the good relationships are worth the work though
You stated you love him so much. Why do you want to break off with him? If he is a nice guy and love you, tell him the true: that you like him but you don't want him to give up his dream. You can find some time to be with each other. There is always a way . Ga
DONT NOT BREAK UP! It si the worst thing to do. U will fully regret it, Your talking to some one with experience here, don't break up because you don't see him that much it not worth it. if there is a will there is a way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Exactly what you just explained to us. Say to him. Sounds good to me.





Best of luck (:
just tell it to him straight up that i don't think it is going to work.
dont do it you will regret it big time !!!!!!!!!!!! x x x

How do you break up with a guy that you have only been with for a week?

The guy isn't my type at all and I need to break up with him before he gets too attached to me.How do you break up with a guy that you have only been with for a week?
Just tell him the truth...be honest and he cant be too hurt can he??How do you break up with a guy that you have only been with for a week?
be nice but just say that you no he isn't rite for you, fanks for the fun but its not gonna work, good luk.
just tell him. give your reasons but don't be blunt.





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You pretty much got yourself in trouble for letting him be part of your life in the first place...





Just break up w/ him and get it over with. Don't make up stupid lies like you're the one who's hurting 'coz that would be just plain awful. Talk to him about it and once you decide that you really want to break things up don't take pity on him 'coz pity is definitely not synonymous to LOVE.





Try to be careful of the choices you make too. People don't deserve to be played and don't wait around for Karma to work it's magic.
just tell him that your not ready for a relationship but dont say lets just be frinds say that the tiem u where 2getha showed you that its not gonna work out and that its better being friends before any1 gets hurt
Tell him now ,,,,before it goes on to long,,,,,

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How do you break up with a guy???????

me and this guy have been going out scence febuary buy he has never kissed me but he gives me hugs kinda i know he still likes me but i don't any more so how do i break up with him but i still want to be friends How do you break up with a guy???????
If you're breaking up with him because he's never kissed you, you might be throwing a guy away who is just respectful of you and that's how his mother taught him to treat girls with respect.





However, if it's for other reasons, then you should just tell him that you're not wanting to date him anymore and that you'd like to remain friends if possible. How do you break up with a guy???????
Its not me its you.. oh wait i said that wrong. its not you its me!:) Lets be friends though. its best for both of us
umm why do u wanna break up with him because he never kissed u ????

Help me. how the hell do you break up with a guy if he says no and you cannot avoid him?

He says no and begs and then just resorts to pretending were still dating. I go to college with him, so i cant really avoid him.


I like him and thats a problem too.





IDK he was my first everything and i have never been with another man and im just curious. I dont want to cheat on him.


What do i say to him to get him to understand that its over.


I would write more, to explain myself, but then nobody would answer it.Help me. how the hell do you break up with a guy if he says no and you cannot avoid him?
Just ignore him as in pretend that he doesn't exist. If he's persistently stalking or harrassing you, then go to the police and get an order of protection.

Why do guys break up with me after sex?

After I sleep with a guy he stops wanting to be with me for anything other than sex. They don't want a relationship anymore, just booty calls and hook ups. Guys are always talking about sex, about how they want to bang this girl or that girl. They say they want a girl that will give bj's and have any kind of sex they can imagine. But if they meet that girl, they just call her a slut and have sex with her and then dump her. If that's what they want, why don't they keep her?





Guys say they want a girl that's easy going and loves sex, but they always go for high maintenence prudes who just string them along and tease them. I hear guys complaining all the time about how girls want nice guys and go for jerks but guys are just as bad!





What is it that guys really want?





PS I asked before but didn't really get any answers so I'm trying again.Why do guys break up with me after sex?
girl i understand u becuz yea it really happens to me alot...


now in days thats all guys wana do...hit it and quit it they dnt care about no girls feelings but thereselves...there really jerks and selfish =[Why do guys break up with me after sex?
I'm sorry but not all guys are like that. Each person is different, some people like for who you are and some are just idiotic people who just like sex. That is the same for girls too, but not frequently because males have different hormones and things compared to females. Just find a guy who will like you for who you are.
Look in the mirror.


How do you present yourself? How do you dress?


What type of men do you associate with?


You meet less than appealing guys because you may be too trusting, you may just have bad luck, but you may also act/dress that sends the wrong signals to guys.


Maybe they don't see you as girlfriend material. Maybe You are just hanging around the wrong crowd. Hard to say without a lot of information but there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Cause half of the guys these days are complete asshole. You should really try and get to know a guy before going off and sleeping with him. It's stupid because you never know if he has STDS or not. And guys should stop being like that because STDS is a big thing in the world these days and just randomly sleeping with a whore may give it to him.





UGHH everyones confusing but becareful with who you sleep with.
Thing is taht is what tehy want, but you have to pace yourself. Dont let them knowyou are pen to ANYTHING right out teh gate. Let them tell you things tehy want and slowly start giving them to them. But teh more you do up front teh less interested tehy seem to be, personaly experience, because teh chase is over. There is no more trying to convinceyou.
because those Tip of guys have no respect for a female and there pride and are just jerks like you said i just want a Girl who loves me for who i am and if i comes to sex im not going to leave her that's wrong one night stands are stupid.
Guys who want you for sex are assholes. There are better guys out there you just have to look!
You have not meet the right person for relationship.
because your easy...











sorry, hun.
Aww, that sucks.





Its just cause they want some easy ***.
look for guys working or shopping at a grocrey store, not clubbing ones and so on
they might be afraid to commit and depend on what age u r.... at certain age, sex is all that is on guys' mind

How do i break up with a guy like this? HELP please!?

Okay well i for sure am going to break up with him, so dont tell me not to please. well this guy is suicidal. like seriously depressed. how do i break up wtih a guy like this? i dont wanna be responsible for his death! does anyone understand? please help.How do i break up with a guy like this? HELP please!?
I understand.How do i break up with a guy like this? HELP please!?
Only his parents can help him now.


And you should talk to his parents as well.


You can not be hold back by his threats.


You FORCE move.


And when things is over,


don't feel guilty about the whole issues.





UNLESS, you've cheated his wealth and had planned it


all the way from the start.

How do a make a guy break up with me?

There's this guy who practically told everyone I was dating him. Well, he got my phone number from a complete moron, and has been texting me ever since. I can't block his number without blocking either incoming or outgoing calls. And he's always texting me saying,';Where are you?'; ';What are you doing?'; And he always walks around my house excessively. He says I'm the only one for him. And he always uses Kieth Urban songs to describe ';us';. It's creepy.


He even went as far as telling everyone he was my ';psycho.'; And he's not romantic at all, as funny as that is, he always calls me his ';sweet thing.';


I want to find a way to make him break up with me without me looking like a dumb a**.How do a make a guy break up with me?
I think that you should probably just breakup with him yourself and not wait for him to break up with you. Just tell him that you don't feel the same way about him and ask him to please stop bugging you. You could also call the police and tell them that he's stalking you because that's definitely what it sounds like and the police can keep him away from you. Good luck and stay safe! :)

How do I break up with this guy?

Ok well we have been goin out for like 3 days and i never really wanted to go out with him in the first place but i just thought it would be no big deal just a little date.. but now he says all this stuff like he loves me and i am beautiful and stuff so i say it back so i am not an a** hole..and today we made out and i just didnt feel anything and i didnt really like it..so now i want to break up with him but i dont know how since i told him i love him and stuff...so please help me find a nice way to break up with him


THANKS!!


P.S we are 15 is that matters? lolHow do I break up with this guy?
Well, you can't say that he's all to blame in this situation. He's obviously really liked you for quite some time, and it would have been ok if you accepted his request but just took things very slowly. Unfortunately, you really did lead him on. Making out after 3 days is taking things VERY quickly, and telling him that you loved him just to agree is abusing the meaning of the word. I'd say that the best thing to do would be to break up with him as soon as possible (do it nicely, though, just say that you don't think it's working and things went too quickly) just so that he doesn't get even more attached to you. He'll live.How do I break up with this guy?
if u want to make his break up easier.. avoid all contact with him at school and if he text u make up excuses on why u didnt recieve them and slowly... like a few weeks lose contact with him untill he finally comes up and asks u why u arnt talking to him and just tell him things arnt working out...


or u can be a not lying asshole and just tell him it was a mistake for the 2 of u to go out in the first place..





But i am a boy and a girl has went up and told me straight and told me she wanted to brake up with me and i loved her.. i was so crushed i almost commited suicide.. check to make shure he doesnt love u tooo much

How can I help a guy break-up with his girlfriend?

I really like this guy a lot and have for awhile on and off. Ive known him know for like 3 years. But the problem is he has a girlfriend. He had like 3 or 4 since i first knew him and they only ever last like 2-3 months. So I started talkin to him again a few weeks ago and yesterday he asked me to sit with him at the high school football game and i waited tell he texted me to say he was at the game even though i had already seen him lol. Then i sat with him and he flirted with me a lot. His one friend that's a girl thought i was his gf at first. His guy friends all kept smiling and looking at the guy i like. They all acted like he had said something good about me. Then he had went to go get a burrito and asked if i wanted to come and i said ill just wait here and he was like ok make sure nobody takes my seat lol. Then when he came back he said did you miss me and i said haha ya i did lol!! Sooo basically i'm asking how i can help or make steps further for him to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me!!!! HELP!


P.S. I know some people think its wrong but look he has been wrong 2 and all is fair in love and war!!How can I help a guy break-up with his girlfriend?
devour his soul and take over his body and go break up with her yourself.





:DHow can I help a guy break-up with his girlfriend?
If he's had that many girlfriends in that short of time period then I would be more than slightly concerned that he would flirt and cheat on you more times than you could imagine. If you respect your heart and think you can live and be happy without him, I'd stay the heck away from that. Don't forget, another guy can make you feel just the same way, and what goes around comes around. Believe me on that one!
He has a girlfriend yet he is flirting with you. Nice job, what a keeper! If that's what you want then tell him if he breaks up with his girlfriend you will give him the bj ever!!!!
Are you sure he didnt already? He sounds like the guy I like lol.











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don't you think if he is flirting with you while he has a gf, that he will probably flirt with other girls while he is dating you? umm common sense com'on
Don't follow that ';all is fair in love and war'; bull. That's only okay in the movies. You need to just let this guy have his silly relationships. If they only last 2-3 months, then why are you even interested in getting them to break up? So you can have a few months with him, too? To me, it just sounds like he was flirting - and you shouldn't take it too seriously, because I highly doubt he is. And if he does like you and wants to date you, then why isn't he with you?

How is the nicest way to break up with a guy?

I need the nices way i dont wanna hurt the guy (maybe even coming from a guys prespective)How is the nicest way to break up with a guy?
there is no easy way to break up with someone, you will always hurt that personHow is the nicest way to break up with a guy?
tell him that u think it'd not workin n i think it we will beta off as friends
tell him your not good enough for him. Thats basically a compliment.
There is no nice way. It is like pulling off a band aid. The quicker the better.

I need help on how to break up the guy i like (my bff) and his gf he told me he likes me and that its going...

its going to be hard to break up with her because they have been together for about 5 months and she just graduated hes a junior im a sophmore if u need any more info just say so then i will add more on here and just check it a few mins after u postI need help on how to break up the guy i like (my bff) and his gf he told me he likes me and that its going...
All you can do is see how their relationship goes-ask him often how things are going in a nice way, but not cause any trouble, start anything, get in the middle of it or he may hate you for it-maybe they'll break up in the future, just be patient.I need help on how to break up the guy i like (my bff) and his gf he told me he likes me and that its going...
LOL!! It's not your JOB to break them up. If he wants to be with you, he'll break up with her.

How or/and when do i break up with a guy?

I like this guy but i know it is best for me to break up with him.How or/and when do i break up with a guy?
Okay I need to know why? why do you want to break up with him? like is something wrong with him or what? cause it kinda makes no sense since you said you like him. But I guess based on what you said if you really feel you need to break up with him then just be honest and tell him just how you feel.How or/and when do i break up with a guy?
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Go to a neutral place where you both can leave when needed, then explain to him in a calm tone that you don't believe that you two being together is what is best. Do NOT get defensive, and allow him to be upset and allow him to have his own time. Do not try to be friends unless it is a very mutual break up or there has been a lot of passed time.
Can you elaborate why you would want to break up with him?





Wait. Nevermind. I don't feel like editing.





You should break up with someone as soon as possible if you find him NOT the right guy, but if it's because you like someone else, you're unfaithful unless you were unfaithful to the other person in the first place.





If you don't break up sooner, there'll be regrets or it'll be harder to break up when he has shown good qualities that make you two want to stick together.





I'm misunderstanding the ';I like this guy';, since it's not necessary since you're already the girlfriend, correct?





Sometimes though, the person you like/love you're better off without. Not all the time this applies to every relationship though.





My point -- the sooner the IF your friends or family think there's good enough reasons to break up





Such good reasons would be that he's cheating, taking drugs/alcohol, ignoring you, hanging out TOO much with his friends over you (That's for your friends to decide), and maybe et cetra/etc.





=D Hope I help....ed a bit.
you should do it right away if you know you shouldnt be w/ him. it will just get harder and harder the longer you wait.
Well hun...... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years almost and you just gotta no if you really love him. But if your heart is telling you otherwise than I would follow your heart. What gives you a reason to break up with him in the first place? Just some advice you've got to stay with this guy if you really like him. But is this ';like'; thing more like a ';love'; thing? That's the kind of question you want to ask yourself. If you have questions just go on my profile and email me from my address.
well why do you wanna break up with him
okay 4 whatever reason u want 2 break up with him, just say hey i think its best we are just friends........break-up with him after school, or when he is not is a good mood or a bad mood, just and okay mood.
Hmmmmm...





But y wann break up wid him..


u didnt mentioned anyhitng..





yes may be... u know the things going on ....


u love him so much that u wann go side , so that he should be happy..


gud...





Juz ignore him.. even though act as if its normal..





He'll come to know ur avodiing him.. try not to talk abt it..


wen he wants.. make it clear..





tell him the truth.. it will give u relief...
you are just going to have to tell him. there is no easy way to let someone down that is not going to hurt their feelings. if he lies you he is going to be hurt and there is nothing that you can do about that. however, if you really care about him. do not let this go on any longer than it has to. do not sit around and let another 6 months go by trying to break up with him because it will be even worse. sit him down and tell him that reasons that you are breaking up with him. tell him that you really care for him, but right now it's just best if you were not together.

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How to make a guy break up with me?

Okay so Im dating this guy named chris W but my old friend Robert just moved to my school (me and robert both went to school together the previous year and then I moved we were friends but we've always liked eachother cuz he asked meout one time and I said no cuz he had just broke up with my friend morgan but I dont talk to her anymore) anyways so Robert moved to my new school and I have been dating Chris W for like a year, but I totally like robert more but I cant just break up with Chris because he hasnt done anything wrong... How can I get Chris to break up with me so I can date robert (I still wanna be friends with him)How to make a guy break up with me?
well, instead of playing games with chris, just break up with him!


do u really think that by making HIM break up with you, it makes you any better of a person? instead of lying to him, and trying to be nice and not hurt his feelings, be honest...how the hell do you expect to still be friends with him if he's not going to trust a WORD you say?

How do you break-up and stay broke-up with a guy that is totally clingy.?

I have dated this guy for over 3 years. I have broken up with him several times but he always manages to get back into my life. I don't want to be mean to him, but I also do not want him as my boyfriend. Ideas and prayers are appreciated.How do you break-up and stay broke-up with a guy that is totally clingy.?
First and foremost, when you say '; he always manages to get back into my life'; do you have unresolved feelings or he know the right things to say? I would think that you need to figure out what he does/says that makes him get back into your life. Once you can anticipate what he will do, you can change the way you feel/react to that. When you have prepared yourself to deal with whatever he may do to that compels you to date him again, the feelings may not be there and you can distance yourself emotionally and mentally from him. If he is in part of your social circle, may change the circle for awhile, go take some classes or make some time for new friends.





No matter what you do, you are going to have to be a bit mean. Remember that if you are not wanting to be with him, but are not letting go of him, you are not doing him any favors. By staying together you are kind of closing doors to meeting the people you both should really be with. Good luck!How do you break-up and stay broke-up with a guy that is totally clingy.?
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good luck sweety!!
i've had the same problem. except not 3 years! i loved this boy but he was getting sooo annoying. after we broke up he'd get sooo sad and depressed and i'd just come back because i felt so bad. what i did was find someone else. after a-while he will hopefully get it that your happier with someone else and that he will be to when he moves on.
im going through the same problem....i havent succeeded yet but i have told him the flat out truth that i just dont want to be in the relationship anymore and i dont love him that way..and make it clear you will not be calling him or hanging out anymore so he want be lead on in anyway...good luck

Any advice on how to break up with a guy?

i am currently in a relationship i don't want to be in. at first i thought i liked the guy but now the things he does that i used to find funny are just down-right annoying. he ses he loves me and we have only been going out for two months. i know i have to break up with him cuz by dragging it out im only hurting him but i have no idea what i should say or when is a good time. help?!?!?!Any advice on how to break up with a guy?
You are making a good decision to break up with him. All I can say is let him down easily and don't lead him to think think that you two may get back together if you don't think it will happen. That has happened to me he still hasn't gotten over me yet because I let him think that I might get back together with him. GOOD LUCK!!!!!! ;)Any advice on how to break up with a guy?
Wow, my girlfriend is in the exact same predicament. She used to find some of the things I do funny but now she finds the ';down-right annoying'; and I know she wants to end it with me based on those traits.





Instead of ending it, why don't you try to talk to him about it? Maybe those things he does are not truly who he is and he's just trying to impress you.
Tell him the truth! Do not lie or make excuses. Tell him the honest truth and try and be nice about it. If he seams as though he is not taking it well, highlight his good qualities and tell him how you know plenty of girls who would give a lot to have a guy like him (as I'm sure you do). let him ask questions and try and answer them as honest as possible without making him feel too bad, no matter what. If he starts getting rude with you tell him that this is just how you feel and that your decision is final. If he starts to guilt trip you, tell him that you are sorry, but you need to make decisions for yourself, and that you are at least being honest with him.
the best thing to do is to be honest with him. tell him that you just dont see long term potential in him. break up with him like you would rip a bandaide off. quick! no point in delaying it. you're unhappy, he's sure to pick up on that.
you have to do it quick and fast...like taking of a band-aid


sure its gonna hurt the guy...but hey...he's a guy right, he should be alright...if not, then he needs to grow a pair...





remember, quick and fast!
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Why Would a Guy Break Up With You Then Call You a Few Days Later?

To make a long story short i was in a relationship for 8 months with a guy. The beginning was great but as we moved further into the relationship he became, possesive, controlling, demeaning, and verbally abusive. Finally he broke up with me and I was very hurt and still am but am moving on.





So after the break up he called me a few days later and I asked him what was the purpose of the call and he said..';to see what i was doing.'; Then he called once again and asked me if i was seeing other men etc and told me how he took this new girl out and how much he spent on her.





He accused me of being needy, pyschotic, controlling and every mean thing in the book prior to the break up. If i was all of these horrible things, why is he still calling. Why Would a Guy Break Up With You Then Call You a Few Days Later?
hes playing a game . try best to ignore itWhy Would a Guy Break Up With You Then Call You a Few Days Later?
Girl he's so confused! I think he feels bad about the way he treated you and yet he still loves you. Maybe he feels like this chance with another woman is like his fresh start you know? He wants to be with you, but the memory of everything he did in the past may still haunt him and make him want to do it all over again. Maybe he's just tryna change, but his heart wont let him let go of you.
he was expecting you to come crawling back.


and when you didnt, he got pissed because you werent doing what he wanted you to do. its all just a part of him being controlling.





stay the hell away form that guy, its never going to change.
Just count your blessings that he told you that he's found someone else....you deserve someone who will love and cherish you instead of treat you like a punching bag... let it go and move on!!


I hope that helps...
yeah my ex did that too he just said he wanted to make sure i was ok and idk its been like 5 months and he still asks if i am dating so maybe its just a guy thing
Because he is an *** and he needs to leave you alone no man especially grown man should not be deign this
He called you cuz he wanted some poontang not that hard.
if u dont want to talk to him then just ignore him, but if ur just confused just ask him wats up

Should i hang on to this relationship after break up as i feel its still feel its my true love?

4 months ago, we broke up as we had frequent fights and one fine day she said, that she is leaving me,. It wasnt that serious fights we could have overcome it with open communication, as we had a wonderful understanding..... We were toghter for almost 34 months. I tried to convince her, pleaded but she dint lsnt to me and ignored my calls, and later after few days i offered to be her friend as i could get close to her..... She immediately accepted my friendship and was happy for it... we have been very close now and we talk daily..... Her close friend said that she loves me a lot, and cant be committed as she is not able to convince her parents to accept our relationship....... I feel shes my true love, and i very well know that she loves me a lot.....


not even a single day we have stopped talking to each other after we broke up......


But she doesn accept the fact that she left me cause of the reason she cant convince her parents......


But y the hell shes ruining her life, cause i kw that she cant be happy with any guy, she feels so happy when i meet her or talk to her over the phone..... i don know y is she doin like this with her life....


she a scorpio girl and i am a piesean guy..,,.. i have read that scorpion and a piesean are made for each other, a relationship made in heaven,.....


u guys can imagine how intense our relationship would have been...... we loved each other so much.....


im not interested in any gal at all, i just want to keep this girl happy, and i have tried my level best to keep her happy after our break up.....


Guys pls help me, i don kw should i hang on to this realtionship and carry on, or forget her.... its impossible for me to forget her cause shes too good and i always felt that she mite need me..... and i feel she my true love........ thank you.....Should i hang on to this relationship after break up as i feel its still feel its my true love?
m also in d same situation now..d same thing ... hes a muslim guy n m a hindu girl.. bcoz f d same reason , he left me..


one suggestion i can give u is, don't talk wid her for few days, try to resist urself from talking wid her. if she really likes u from d bottom of her heart, she will come to u n plead u n she will be ready to do anything for u dat time..if shes happy witout talking wid u, its not true love..